I want to try something new.
When I post I'll put what I have to say between [these things] to prevent confusion on what sort of topic it is. I look around the forum to think I'll find a ''How To'' or an explanation on a certain subject but then I find the same question, with mostly no answer. So that's why the [...], lets see if it works.
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Now to the real topic, I wanted to share a cool conversational tool that I picked up in the last couple weeks. (I have to give credit to HaleyQuinn )
Paraphrasing
What I think you would like is to build a solid connection to lessen the chances that she will flake. And one of the most common Sticking Points is still not knowing how to continue the conversation.
i.e. When you're in a conversation and she tells you that she loves to climb mountains...
HB: ''I love climbing mountains.''
PUA: ''That feeling you feel free but at the same time hanging on a rope with adrenaline flowing through your body, I think that's amazing. [paraphrase] I remember I was a little dare devil climbing tree and jumping from branch to branch, it felt good. And when I was on the top of the tree it felt so amazing.''
Paraphrasing is actually just repeating what she said with a different vocab.
She will get what you mean and you establish a connection between you too for sharing 1 in the same amazing feeling, something that only both of you share.
It's helped me allot and I hope it's useful to you, too*