I'm actually new to this forum, but I'm really glad i found it. here's my problem. i met this girl few days back. we took a class together early this year but i didn't really notice her since it was a huge class. so by the end of the semester she stopped me one day to inquire about the class and stuff. since then we've really not seen each other. but a few days ago i went with my buddies to a bar, and was standing outside (the bar was filled to the brim) with them when this girl came over. anyway she was trying to get in but couldn't cos there was no space left. she turned and saw me, and instantly recognized me. we talked about the situation in the bar and she suggested that we go to another bar close by. we both did and while there we really hit it off and i think we connected in a way that actually took me unaware. she was actually fun to be with. we later came back to the other bar a couple of hrs later and hung out for some time. it was very late and when she got ready to leave, she came and asked for my number and gave me hers. half an hr l8r i sent her this text:
Me: have u ever met someone and felt as if you've known them all ur life? that was how i felt tonite.
interacting with u for the first time time and feeling as if I've known u all my life. u have a beautiful energy about u. keep it up! u rock! but u still owe me soooo many beers.
.Her: Energy? i felt like i had none! but i knew we were bound to meet up at some point, and I'm Super stoked that we did! your stories are amazing and I'm excited to hear more with the beers that i owe you
.a couple of days later i sent her a flirty text to find out what she's been up to, she replied almost immediately that she was having lunch at a sushi restaurant and invited me to come. since I'm not really into sushi, i told her that, but made a deal with her that I'll only come if she promises to go with me to a Chinese restaurant l8r. she agreed as long as it was another day. we met up, after a while we went to her place and really talked for a while. i did some very brief kinos and it went well (should i have made a move then and there? pointers needed!!). later when i wanted to leave she walked me to where I'll catch the bus. (it was some distance and the weather was almost freezing) she waited until i left. while talking and waiting i did a few more brief kinos (sparingly), then i decided to push a little and tried to subtly touch her cheeks close to her lips, and she kinda laughed uncomfortably and pulled back, asking me what i was doing. i recovered a bit and told her i was trying to gauge the wind direction just as she taught me. she then said ooh, and stuck out her finger (like she had done before) to gauge the wind direction. but i felt slightly uncomfortable after that although i pretended nothing happened. We continued talking until l i left. now this is my sticking point. i normally get them interested, only to fail miserably in my sexual escalation. i don't really want to mess this one up, (at least let it be a learning curve for me)but i think she's interested. how do i inject that sexual tension, cos most times they seem to lose interest an put me in that FZ. am i moving too fast, or too slow here? timing & sexual escalation seem to be major sticking points for me. any pointers will be "SERIOUSLY" Appreciated. keep up the good work guys!!
have to work on that!!
