Hi, i'm new to the forums so if this is in the wrong section please feel free to move it!
So basically i was dating this girl recently, 3 dates, 4th dat she flaked and i texted her saying i didn't want to see her anymore because i felt i was wasting my time. The dates were good but she barely texted me, and flaked at the last minute for the 4th date. She said;
'i just forgot about that i had made plans the other day, i do like you but i'm still feeling hurt from last relationship (which ended the day i met her). I don't want to rush anything, i just thought we could have a laugh and see where it goes but i'm not looking for something serious and i'm sorry if you are. It's up to you what happens.'
This confused me, and i didn't know how to interpret it. Btw i am looking for something serious not just an F-close. But they way i seen it as is she looking just to f*ck. And i was like 'are you just tryna have sex here?' (is this ultimate AFC?) Because the way i seen it was, there was no other outcome apart from never seeing the person again/friendship at best. Anyway she replied to that saying 'you've clearly got the wrong impression of me, that is not what i mean at all'. Should i have just took her out one more time and tried to f-close at the end of the night?
