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Author:  ronson [ Tue Nov 06, 2012 10:17 pm ]
Post subject:  Really unsure what is going on.
So there is this girl at my uni that i have now known for about a month. Hit it off really well, were friends for the first 2 weeks, but since then our relationship has been becoming slightely more intense. We decided to jokingly get married, we talk about mutual attraction, when we went out a couple of weeks ago, there was loads of kino. She however has a boyfriend, however she keeps talking about how the timing is bad and how its so weird being in a relationship. Shes had loads of relationshis and has been a bit fucked up, and has just started a relationship after being in an open relationship for two years with the guy. We have slept in the same bed three times, however we've not done anything, apart from spoon a bit. We stay up talking. Last weekend we were togeather for most of it drunkanly, and there was a lot of kino, she flashed me as a joke, but then i made a pass at her and she avoided it, even though she was unbuttening my shirt ect. Then we came home and every one thought we had ran away together.
We have bought tickets to fly to german for 4 days, which will be intense, next week.
I really have no idea whats going on, im fairly sure she likes me, has basically said so a lot. However shes just really mental and is impossible to understand. What should i do to sort out this situation.

Sorry about the errors, was writing this whilst a little stoned. :)
Author:  davidlov [ Wed Nov 07, 2012 12:01 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Really unsure what is going on.
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So there is this girl at my uni that i have now known for about a month. Hit it off really well, were friends for the first 2 weeks, but since then our relationship has been becoming slightely more intense. We decided to jokingly get married, we talk about mutual attraction, when we went out a couple of weeks ago, there was loads of kino. She however has a boyfriend, however she keeps talking about how the timing is bad and how its so weird being in a relationship. Shes had loads of relationshis and has been a bit fucked up, and has just started a relationship after being in an open relationship for two years with the guy. We have slept in the same bed three times, however we've not done anything, apart from spoon a bit. We stay up talking. Last weekend we were togeather for most of it drunkanly, and there was a lot of kino, she flashed me as a joke, but then i made a pass at her and she avoided it, even though she was unbuttening my shirt ect. Then we came home and every one thought we had ran away together.
We have bought tickets to fly to german for 4 days, which will be intense, next week.
I really have no idea whats going on, im fairly sure she likes me, has basically said so a lot. However shes just really mental and is impossible to understand. What should i do to sort out this situation.

Sorry about the errors, was writing this whilst a little stoned. :)
even mental girls can be tamed if the right guy came along. she definitely likes you and would definitely leave her boyfriend for you, you say you are going on a trip to Germany together for 4 days, that means fuck her and fuck her good. after you kiss her then its all history from there, wait till you go on the trip to stick your tongue down her throat. other then that, just keep doing you.
Author:  ronson [ Tue Nov 13, 2012 10:16 am ]
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Cheers for the above advice :lol:
Would love a bit more though :P
So were going away next sunday, its getting closer and closer. Also since my last post, appart from saterday, we have been togeather basically every evening for hours. Two nights in a row we slept in the same bed, first there was mild cuddeling, seccond it was a bit more intense, nothing deffinate. We allways talk about how we are having dates, and descuss our relationship. She said that she felt guilty, and she really neaded to confess (shes not really religious but you get the point). On saterday, the only day we wernt togeather, she wanted me to go out with her, however her bf was out and i really didnt want to go as i knew i would feel like shite, she wanted me to go as well so she wouldnt have to get home on her own, which i felt was weird as she could just go home with her bf, which in the end she did, duno if i did the right thing by not going, but i dont want to become her bitch. The whole relationships just really intense, night before last she came round and at the end of the night, about 4, i was walking her to her flat,(about two mins away) and she was making loads of hints about not wanting to stay and being scared, but i just acted a bit aloof. We then had this text conversation:
me: Do you want to stay over?
Her: Do you?
Me: Im in bed, so i am already.
Her: Are you asking me because you feel obligated? whatta shame
Me: i guess (this allways winds her up)
Her: Difficult
Her: I actually do but your room is to hot so ill have to brave it on my own.
Me: I turned it off but i do think you have to grow (not physically and become braver).
Her: i need to grow in both ways.
there was more along those lines, she asked weather i wanted to sleep round hers, but i kindov didnt like the idea of walking over and her opening the door to me all eager to just cuddle. so in the end we just stayed in our rooms.

So yesterday was bassically a date, we had dinner and then went to the cinema, which was a bit corny but i really wanted to go to see a film and she just invited herself. We then walked back, holding hands, there were just loads of moments when we were staring at eachother, a bit to close, for ages, you know those moments, when you should go for it, there were just loads, but the bf just made it impossible. I remember it being just the most rediculous thing, when at like 1.30 in the morning we were lying on a swing in a deserted park ontop her ontop of me, having random banter, and she was like "this is such a weird relationship."
Yesterday she said some interesting things as well, were in her kitchen and one of her flat mates started bitching about her bf, and this girl, was like "yeh boyfriends are so annoying." She also said at some point that she missed that beggining of a relationship feeling.

So stuffs getting kindov silly and it needs to get sorted, I kindov would love to know, have i become her fluffer (i do however feel that theres too much sexuall charge but that might just be me)? Is cuddeling good or bad? does it increase closeness and attraction, or remove sexual fire, kino is kino. Should i try and make a move when the moments right, only thing is, its so much harder making a move on a girl in a relationship. Should i bring up the situation and ask her weather she would dump her bf. Should i hurry up, dont want to be put in the, mental sexual frustration friend zone. What should i do?

Sorry about the length boys, i appreceate all who read, thanks.
Author:  davidlov [ Tue Nov 13, 2012 6:48 pm ]
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well it could go either way.. she might welcome your tongue in her mouth or she might pull away and fuck up the trip. well if you ever have that moment again or you sense shes horny maybe you should go for it, trust your instinct.
Author:  Heywood Jablowme [ Tue Nov 13, 2012 9:16 pm ]
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Ok, she's been in your bed like 6 times, and she showed a little resistance, and you back off every time?? WTF?? Bro she wants to fuck you and you keep giving up!

In HER mind she has done nothing but THROW herself at you, while only showing light LMR.

If you still want to save it for the "Trip" cut out all the fucking dry humping!

Go no physical contact until then, amp up the idea that your going to fuck her brains out when there. Tell her all the nasty things your going to do to her.

When you get there follow through with your intentions. Lead the way, be a MAN! Assert some seductive activity and sexual flattery while being playful and hard to get. She might just ask you to peel her clothes off.
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