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| Author: | Mkaiser23 [ Mon Nov 05, 2012 1:27 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Thoughts On My Recent Failure? |
Hey Guys- I'm new to the forum, but have been doing some PUA stuff for about 6 months to some success. With that said, I have a unique situation, and I'm curious to hear feedback on it if you're willing to respond. So the long-short of it is this- I came home one day to find my roommates' 8.5 friend would be staying with us for a couple days. I didn't sarge her right off, but in like an hour I was throwing some pebbles, and DHVing. She clearly thought I was cool, and was impressed by "all the stuff I have going for me," but I wasn't getting IOI's. Then, a day later, she asked me to go to a bar with her, not inviting my roommate. We go out, and I was pretty good in the bar, talking to people, got a girl's number (not sure she saw this), and then we split. I still wasn't sure where it was going, but she put her arm around me saying it was 'cold.' I'm not sure how genuine this was or wasn't, but we got some food, and she did it again. Nothing past this, but she was really insecure around me the next day, trying to explain why she was cool- acting sort of desperate for validation. She asked me to go out with her again that night, but this time shows up with a guy. I wasn't willing to compete, to be completely honest, and he ended up taking her home, after the three of us hung out for like 4 hours. Here's my assessment. I think I had her in A3, and didn't escalate- like an asshole. She got nervous, and though she wanted to hang out with me, she also felt vulnerable since she had made the first "move," and brought this guy along as a reserve (he was younger than her by a few years, and not all that interesting. Persistent he was). I think I'm now in the friendzone. Bummer. So, after this diatribe, do you think my assessment is right? Or do you think maybe I'm giving myself too much credit, and I never had her at attraction? Thanks for any feedback guys! |
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| Author: | TrippAdvice [ Mon Nov 05, 2012 4:01 pm ] |
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I think you've figured it out bud. She was attracted to you but you failed to do anything about it. But, don't beat yourself up about it. You will never know for sure until you try. So I say to try and meetup again and escalate and see what happens. You seem to be doing very well in your game so if it doesn't work out with her then you will be good to go with another HB  Here's a post you might like that I wrote on "abundance mentality" - http://trippadvice.com/abundance-mentality/ |
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| Author: | Duke Killer [ Mon Nov 05, 2012 8:02 pm ] |
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Dude, you totally had her at first, you were supposed to escalate after you ate and fuck her in the next hour. You may got yourself in the LJBF, but let's not forget that it's not impossible to get yourself out of it  Good Luck |
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| Author: | Mkaiser23 [ Mon Nov 05, 2012 11:53 pm ] |
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Thanks for the feedback and encouragement guys! I'll give her another try this weekend and see what happens. TrippAdvice- thanks for the link! Helpful indeed. |
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