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| Author: | EC-Diesel [ Sun Oct 28, 2012 5:28 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Problems with kiss-close, need advice! |
I've been staying in this hotel near Munich, and have been working om my one on one Game. I noticed that i have alot to learn :p i'll describe.. I walked into the Sauna area and got to talk to a girl. My opener was Sauna related 'do you mind if i join? And shortly after i used the 'i cant stay long because i'm not able to sit in the Saune for very long'. However, we got to small talk about work, motorcycles etc.. I got 2 IOI's so asked her if she wanted to join to the relax room, she did and we continued our conversation. After that we got back in the Sauna again, took a shower and the asked her if she wanted to get a drink in the bar. She said maybe we could meet at breakfast in the morning, but after that she would leave. So that would be useless.. I really didn't know how to convice her! With a dutch girl it probebly would have worked, but this German girl was stubbern! So eventually she left, without succes for me.. Where did i go wrong? Cheers, Diesel |
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| Author: | JDogg65 [ Sun Oct 28, 2012 11:03 pm ] |
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Idk man from what you said, doesn't seem like you did anything wrong. Some girls just aren't buying what you're selling - it happens. There's no direct formula for getting girls and every girl is different. All you can do is maximize your chances and to me it seems like you did that. Maybe she wants to get to know you better before she is comfortable getting a drink with you, hence her suggestion that you guys get breakfast. I'd say follow up on that breakfast and then gauge her interest from there |
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| Author: | andreas1990 [ Wed Oct 31, 2012 6:50 pm ] |
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u did kino??? |
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| Author: | puaninja [ Wed Oct 31, 2012 7:47 pm ] |
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You went wrong by not taking her up on the opportunity to meet again for breakfast, and just assuming it would result in failure. You didn't follow thru. That's where you went wrong. |
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| Author: | EC-Diesel [ Wed Oct 31, 2012 7:57 pm ] |
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No i didn't kino, didn't really feel good when youre alone in a sauna.. About the breakfast part. After breakfast she would leave for home, so that's why it wouldn't work. And after breakfast i had to go to my training course.. Still wondering what i could have done more, i'm not really experienced yet. Edit: I agreed to have breakfast and did, but that probebly wasn't good enough... |
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| Author: | Hazze [ Thu Nov 01, 2012 3:46 pm ] |
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You could have explained why you couldn't meet for breakfast, you're a very busy man etc. etc. but take her up on that opportunity and suggest another meeting location, before breakfast. Kiss closing in the SAUNA, eeeh, no. But honestly, when picking up girls in the sauna there isn't much else you can do. Sounds like you played it well, it was just unfortunate circumstances, and don't forget she could have her own personal reasons for not meeting up. |
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