| PUA Forum https://www.pick-up-artist-forum.com/ |
|
| Need tips on how to escalate with cool girl https://www.pick-up-artist-forum.com/viewtopic.php?f=134&t=149194 |
Page 1 of 1 |
| Author: | Reality Show [ Sat Oct 27, 2012 12:14 am ] |
| Post subject: | Need tips on how to escalate with cool girl |
We have had a great connection and she is a really sweet girl. She is the most well rounded person I have ever dated. I know I have her on a pedestal. Any ideas on how to escalate? |
|
| Author: | VietnameseProdigy [ Sat Oct 27, 2012 12:44 am ] |
| Post subject: | |
Honestly, the way you characterize her, you're going to set yourself up for disappointment. You're beginning to value her too highly, and then questioning your capabilities as a provider, and you're questioning your health and career. You're willing to change and become a better person for this ONE girl. It's great that you think this way, but it's in the wrong context. You should change and become a better person for YOURSELF. Because it will attract more women. Personally I don't think you're ready for a relationship. But just reframe yourself as a couple, do romantic dates, be a 'nice' guy, and see how she reacts. Don't talk about a relationship until she does, if you talk first, you give her control. |
|
| Author: | Reality Show [ Sat Oct 27, 2012 1:01 am ] |
| Post subject: | True |
Vietnamese Prodigy I think you are totally right. Thanks for the feedback. I really hate it when I reach out to people for a reality check and they just tell me I am filled with 'limiting beliefs'. It was unexpected meeting her. Just want to enjoy as much of it as I can. |
|
| Page 1 of 1 | All times are UTC |
| Powered by phpBB® Forum Software © phpBB Group http://www.phpbb.com/ |
|