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Author:  john5814 [ Sun Oct 21, 2012 11:12 am ]
Post subject:  HB10 mixed signals, need advice please.
Hi guys, new to the forum but been browsing for a while.

HB10 I n-closed in a club. She's 3 years younger. I was pretty drunk but I'm sure I was being cocky / funny with a few negs here and there.

Since then we have met up a few times, progressed quite well, kissed on second date then third date we had sex. Neck kissing, massaging, eye contact, the whole romantic lot.

I'd say the chemistry is the strongest thing at the moment. Definitely need to do more comfort building but shes definitely into me because of certain things she says like 'lets not do that just yet' or 'are you sure you want to get involved with me' etc.

We text a lot, mostly cocky/flirty and general what you up to jazz. She's mega popular and has her ex on her case (he cheated on her, she cut him off). She's obviously got options, but it's hard to tell if shes inescure and hides it extremely well (shes very smiley and happy), or if shes just a arrogant bitch. Having said all this, shes worth it so i dont want to bail straight away.

Recently she has stopped texting me as often (no text's for 3 days and i sent the last). Sounds like not a big deal but we generally text every day. I asked her what she was up to this week but she said she was busy all week. She works a lot and had some big nights out to go to, but i cant help but think if she wanted to see me, she would just see me. I'm obviously not on the top of her priority list and don't expect to be, but it's making me paranoid because im that into her.

I don't know if I should start to comfort build during text (as shes 'busy') or just go cold turkey on her and see what happens. Don't want to mess it up. I tend to game at the beginning to meet girls, but this isnt really a scenario of 'plenty more fish' for me, shes the real deal.

Thanks in advance.

p.s. my game is amazing when i want it to be, but deep down im a hopeless romantic.
Author:  zWingman [ Mon Oct 22, 2012 9:18 am ]
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Buddy! You seem like a catch! Game enough to get a HB10 and a romantic at heart ... a girls wet dream! My initial response is 'plenty o fish'...as specially since your not sure if shes
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hard to tell if shes inescure and hides it extremely well (shes very smiley and happy), or if shes just a arrogant bitch.
. But since thats not an option...

Dont forget the story of '1001 Arabian nights'

Once you've got her keep her hooked. Remind her of WHY she is lucky to be with YOU

and to be honest; if she cant make the time for you then shes not the real deal... and I can promise you there is a girl out there literally dripping for a guy like you ;)

Good luck
Author:  The Dice [ Mon Oct 22, 2012 1:07 pm ]
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Cold turkey. Don't send her another text until she replies the one you sent her. It's not always easy to do this, specially when you have oneitis, but as of now it's the best way.

Most likely she is just busy working, and there's nothing to worry about. So if you start worrying when there's nothing to worry about, imagine how that will portray you.

Nothing to worry about - Needy and insecure.

Actually something to worry about - Divided by zero.

Just keep your head cool, and she will cave in eventually. If she doesn't, there's plenty of fish in the sea, and this one is not worthy of your attention.
Author:  TheAnimal [ Mon Oct 22, 2012 5:40 pm ]
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i think that she testing you a bit, you say that her ex cheated on her, so she might have some trust issues, and she wants to make sure that you dosent leave her, for some thing better (because she might also have some other issues from her previous relationship
Author:  puaninja [ Mon Oct 22, 2012 6:08 pm ]
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I've never really gamed a 10, so I can only make assumptions here. I have a feeling that she had her time with you, it ran its course, and she's become pre-occupied with other aspects of her life, possibly other men. Before I finish typing this the pattern will have repeated itself with another guy and she'll have moved on again, breaking his heart. That's just how 9s and 10s are. They chew men up and spit them out, simply because they can.

If she's lost interest then she's made it up in her mind that she's done with you there's little else you can do to change her mind by sending a frickin' text message, I mean c'mon. Playing aloof to someone who has lost interest is like breaking rapport with someone who broke rapport with you first. It doesn't work and they won't care. However, if you get the chance to be around her again you might be able to re-seduce her or game her back into your life. The only other advice would be to maintain a solid pua frame. Don't be needy or chase. Continue to DHV and act like you have other things going on and other women interested in you. If that doesn't work then just be happy that you got to fuck a 10. That's more than most guys can say.
Author:  john5814 [ Tue Oct 23, 2012 10:40 am ]
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Thanks for all the replies guys I really appreciate it. Oneitis is...so say the least...a bitch.

She actually since responded when she went out to a club, got a lot of lovey dovey / slightly horny drunk texts. Then, in the morning, she said she doesnt wan't a boyfriend but still wants to 'hang'. She definitely has trust issues.

Not much I can say to that, I guess i'll keep cold turkey and DHV.
One thing she did say was was that "i better not be shagging anyone else". Contradictory much?
Author:  anaconda1 [ Tue Oct 23, 2012 10:58 am ]
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One thing she did was was that "i better not be shagging anyone else". Contradictory much?
shit test.
Author:  The Dice [ Tue Oct 23, 2012 11:31 am ]
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Looks to me like you've got her right where you want to!

She's starting to get insecure as to where you stand (hence the drunk texts that you didn't respond to), so this is good.

"you better not be shagging anyone else" - she needs validation for her insecurities.

Of course, you should at one point drop the cold turkey, but I wouldn't do that just yet.
Author:  john5814 [ Tue Oct 23, 2012 12:14 pm ]
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Thanks Dice, i think maybe the shit test would have done better with a good comeback, but didnt think at the time. It was a good opportunity to make her jealous but i fucked it.
Author:  The Dice [ Tue Oct 23, 2012 12:45 pm ]
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Well, if you didn't go cold turkey on her a pretty standard, but good reply, would be. "So.. I have to tell the 12 girls I'm having an orgy with to leave? That'll be unpleasant :? 2
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