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Author:  Jay_Swagga12 [ Sat Oct 20, 2012 6:41 am ]
Post subject:  need a bit of advice guys

How do you deal with a guy who comes and opens the girl (s) i'm talking to already!?

Author:  DeathShredder23 [ Thu Oct 31, 2013 2:28 am ]
Post subject:  Re: need a bit of advice guys

Well, for starters, don't let his presence bother you. Maintain eye contact with the girl. You dont have to be rude to the guy, unless of course he starts giving you shit, but dont pay much attention to him at the same time. Be the alpha, and don't try and prove yourself to him. If her attention completely shifts to him and you feel like you're getting blocked out, just say, "Alright well I'll leave you two to chat" and then turn to leave. If she really likes you, she'll leave the other guy. If you really wanna fuck things up for the guy, you can say something like, "Wow, you know what I just realized? The both of you look like the perfect couple. Its like I'm watching birds of paradise court each other on discovery..."

The guy will probably step in to defend himself verbally and deny any of what you just said. After that just laugh and like, "Alright well I'm gonna leave you lovebirds to it. I'll see ya around." Then go sarge another set or something. Later on, you can approach her again an ask her how it went.

Spoiler Alert: It won't have gone anywhere. From there, pickup where you left off.

Author:  Heywoodjablowme [ Mon Nov 04, 2013 7:26 pm ]
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Well, for starters, don't let his presence bother you. Maintain eye contact with the girl. You dont have to be rude to the guy, unless of course he starts giving you shit, but dont pay much attention to him at the same time. Be the alpha, and don't try and prove yourself to him. If her attention completely shifts to him and you feel like you're getting blocked out, just say, "Alright well I'll leave you two to chat" and then turn to leave. If she really likes you, she'll leave the other guy. If you really wanna fuck things up for the guy, you can say something like, "Wow, you know what I just realized? The both of you look like the perfect couple. Its like I'm watching birds of paradise court each other on discovery..."

The guy will probably step in to defend himself verbally and deny any of what you just said. After that just laugh and like, "Alright well I'm gonna leave you lovebirds to it. I'll see ya around." Then go sarge another set or something. Later on, you can approach her again an ask her how it went.

Spoiler Alert: It won't have gone anywhere. From there, pickup where you left off.
Nice! it won't always work that way, but It's better than just standing around the two while they talk.

Author:  DeathShredder23 [ Mon Nov 04, 2013 8:47 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: need a bit of advice guys

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Nice! it won't always work that way, but It's better than just standing around the two while they talk.
I'm sure there are other ways to handle something like this, but I figured it was more entry level, and it helps you maintain your value in the process. After all, you gotta risk losing the girl if you hope to obtain her...

Stringsbythesix... Another guitar player, perhaps?

Author:  Heywoodjablowme [ Mon Nov 04, 2013 9:57 pm ]
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Yea, 95% of the lay closes I've had were because my guitar is in my room, great way to isolate! and drenches 'em soakin wet!

I sing though too, I was in a band for a while. so I can serenade a lady or two, or three, etc. etc.

I didn't need game when I played gigs... it sucks. I miss it.

Author:  DeathShredder23 [ Mon Nov 04, 2013 10:38 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: need a bit of advice guys

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Yea, 95% of the lay closes I've had were because my guitar is in my room, great way to isolate! and drenches 'em soakin wet!

I sing though too, I was in a band for a while. so I can serenade a lady or two, or three, etc. etc.

I didn't need game when I played gigs... it sucks. I miss it.

HAHA I feel ya brother!!! Girls used to fawn over my playing back when I sucked. Now that I'm actually good, I'm outta highschool and can't really play for them... But yea, leaving your guitar out in the open is perfect for that kind of shit. It ALWAYS gets them moist when you can sing and play at the same time.

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