Hey dude Im going to explain something Ive picked up through similar engagements
When you meet a girl theres four stages you need to go through to get her in bed, the rule of thumb is this takes about 6 hours under normal conditions. although with enough skill an experience you can break that to an hour lol trust me
Okay well the four stages are
Interest - Comfort - Attraction - Seductions
If your stay to long in the first 2 you'll get friendzoned. (which isnt the end of the world) But as shes kissed you an met you twice I think youve atleast gone to attraction but you havent progressed much further in that because the moment you noticed she was starting to be attracted to you, you jumped into a seller (entertain/ comedian/clown' mind frame, constantly trying to put yourself out there for her amusing an just not being self amused, relying on her to give you validation she wants to buy you.. Which is really beta behaviour.
The mind frame you need to come from is the buyer, your self amused you dont need her, youd have her you have the 'money/entitlement' that she's yours. You have an abundance of HB9/10's so you dont need her approval.
Work through attraction again, just naturally bring emotions out of her, whether its good or bad just make her experience you, image her as like a a box, an while your there your filling the box with experiences your giving her. if it fills of stuff shes not interested in shes just going to walk away, so empty the box and start again from attraction.
Next time you go out, mediate, chill and relax, your there for your own amusement, your not relatint on her approve, if she starts getting bitchy, it could be a congruency test (shit test) or it could be the bitch shield.
Id probably of gone along the lines of this with your convo
her
Oh please you're the one who never drops the smart and serious jokes
me
I don't know if I could hang with someone so smart...but you do have such a nice booty!
me
I'm really torn
her
Every time you make that same type of joke, it really only reminds me of a) when people used to make fun of me for the same stupid shit in 3rd grade, and b) apparently smart isn't your thing.
me
I like your honest response. It's great because most girls aren't that straight forward.
her
Yeah well I get really honest when I'm annoyed
me yeh your get rather annoying when your annoyed too, come on stand up an say come on *gesture as if your leaving* be an alpha just start walking if she doesn't comply, the change the setting jsut walk her to a different part of the bar or club, then start the whole engagement again, its an NLP trick called pattern interups, if your going around in a circle an cant get out of the fix the literally with volition just change everything, make her question where are you going, are you leaving her shell start seeking validation that your not going to leave her.
Hope that makes sense if you need anymore framing ideas just PM me ill be happy to help
Peace
Dan-Thomas