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Author:  StarRacer [ Sun Oct 07, 2012 4:09 am ]
Post subject:  Flaky girl=Blasted her should I move on?

So I went to this girl's party because a former friend of mine wanted to try to screw who. Needless to say it didn't happen (we all stayed in her room and watched her play XBOX). I was immediately attracted to her. She is at least an 8. She is blonde with amazing blue eyes. And a hell of a body. Her attitude was a turn on too. She just didn't care about stuff and was honest. When we were leaving she said "Bye even though I really didn't get to talk to you".

So I facebooked her and we became friends on facebook. I didn't talk to her because of two reasons. 1) There is a three years age difference she is in high school and I am in college. 2) I thought that she wouldn't be interested.

So I pursed her friend who I had met at the party with little to no success. Then I just decided to talk to her. We had a short conversation then I asked her about hanging out. She said that would be cool. We would set up dates and she would just flake or sometimes I would. But I kinda figured that she was just playing with me.

Recently I decided to be more upfront and told her that I wanted to take her out on a date. She said yes. We were going to go to a movie together. Then the night came, I tried to call her, and she never picked up the phone. The next day I texted her and kinda blew up at her. I told her that she was an immature high school and that she should hit me up when she figured things out. Her response was that I was acting like that was supposed to hurt her feelings.

We haven't spoken since. I was wondering if I too hard on her. Or if she was just messing with me. I think she is interested on some level. But not a huge one. Should I apologize and try to start over? Or just move on?

Author:  StarRacer [ Mon Oct 08, 2012 8:05 pm ]
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Bump would like some advice.

Author:  tongki [ Mon Oct 08, 2012 8:20 pm ]
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loll. she said you act like that was supposed to hurt my feeling? that sounds a bit bitchy if you ask me. i'd js move one. if you apologize that will js vest more power in her. just my two cent.

Author:  EarlyBird [ Tue Oct 09, 2012 7:01 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Flaky girl=Blasted her should I move on?

Quote:
So I went to this girl's party because a former friend of mine wanted to try to screw who. Needless to say it didn't happen (we all stayed in her room and watched her play XBOX). I was immediately attracted to her. She is at least an 8. She is blonde with amazing blue eyes. And a hell of a body. Her attitude was a turn on too. She just didn't care about stuff and was honest. When we were leaving she said "Bye even though I really didn't get to talk to you".

So I facebooked her and we became friends on facebook. I didn't talk to her because of two reasons. 1) There is a three years age difference she is in high school and I am in college. 2) I thought that she wouldn't be interested.

So I pursed her friend who I had met at the party with little to no success. Then I just decided to talk to her. We had a short conversation then I asked her about hanging out. She said that would be cool. We would set up dates and she would just flake or sometimes I would. But I kinda figured that she was just playing with me.

Recently I decided to be more upfront and told her that I wanted to take her out on a date. She said yes. We were going to go to a movie together. Then the night came, I tried to call her, and she never picked up the phone. The next day I texted her and kinda blew up at her. I told her that she was an immature high school and that she should hit me up when she figured things out. Her response was that I was acting like that was supposed to hurt her feelings.

We haven't spoken since. I was wondering if I too hard on her. Or if she was just messing with me. I think she is interested on some level. But not a huge one. Should I apologize and try to start over? Or just move on?
I guess it just happens, it wasnt your fault though!
But i think you should place youself in her mind.
Maybe she was scared to go out with a guy, or shy or something, and instead of blowing up at her, you should just ask questions in a soft way and try to get to the problem, then fix it.
I'm not an expert but i would do it like that, just trying to help dude ;)

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