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| Author: | orioke [ Mon Sep 17, 2012 6:04 am ] |
| Post subject: | Shifting from opening to #close |
Hi, So basically I have been getting really good at opening and building rapport by mirroring body language, but I need to know where to take it after I have opened them. E.g. Me: "Hey excuse me do you know where 'so and so' is? I'm new around here" G: blah blah blah Me: Playful neg "you don't look like you're too sure, I should probably get going" And by that stage I body rock and the girl is IOIing me and trying to bring m,e back into the conversation, but I don't know her to #close once I have opened her. So basically, how do I escalate once I have opened/playfully negged her? Also a big one I need to know, how can I initiate kino very subtly without making it seem too obvious? E.g. i don't want to brush a girls hand or something and have her realise that I'm doing it purposely and freak out. Your thoughts? |
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| Author: | Hijo de Puta [ Mon Sep 17, 2012 6:34 am ] |
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You've gotta have balls and do it. If you have hesitation in kino escalating she will sense this insecurity. Be confident. Talk to this girl as if you know she desperately wants to sleep with you. When you have that outlook you won't worry about what she thinks about you grabbing her hand, or putting your hand on her back, or K-closing. You see the IOI's, you've built rapport, close. Don't hesitate, she wants you to be aggressive. |
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| Author: | Bruce Wayne PUA [ Tue Sep 18, 2012 9:10 pm ] |
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Dude, kino should be implemented ASAP! You can toss it in right after she gives you directions or whatever. You want to establish the fact that you're a touch kind of guy. To do so you have to establish the fact as soon you can. Anytime time you're about to say something you can get in light kino, "Oh, check this" kino her. After jokes kino her. The key is to do kino naturally. Make it a part of who you are. You can escalate from light friendlier touches to more personal and less friendly every day areas as the convo progresses. Good luck. |
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