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| Author: | icecoldconfidence [ Thu Sep 13, 2012 9:09 pm ] |
| Post subject: | push and pull, dont want to be typical"nice guy" Please help |
I find to generate attraction with the technique push and pull or hot and cold as people sometimes call it. Sometimes I am a bit mean with the teasing which I dont want but I am always afraid that If I am to nice she will just loose Interest . Also with things like being funny , is there a limit with how many jokes you make , I dont exactly want the girls to think im trying to impress themto much because they might loose interest . Normaly if I text a girl and they convo is going great I will just stop it right on the spot leaving them wanting more . When I talk to them again I try to go cold and act uninterested but it just doesnt work , some tips on this hot and cold method would be greatly appreciated [/code] One more question when I go hot do I do that for one day ,for a couple of minuites or how long?? Same question for being absent or going cold on the girl ? |
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| Author: | keef_is_god [ Sat Sep 15, 2012 11:51 pm ] |
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I don´t actually have a solution for but some thoughts which might help as well. It´s the same with me. I´m usually the tribal leader of my group, I´m a musician and my friends keep talking of how great I am and what gigs I did. so my value is always thru the roof. But I keep begging and saying ah too bad you´re not my type and I don´t always have a specific target I just throw this stuff at everyone and let them tell me interesting stuff about themselves. and It think this is the point when I come off as untouchable and arrogant, I´m waiting for IOIs and stuff but they already moved on to one of my friends.. So what I´m trying to do next is just go for it and close asap. even if it´s too early and they reject you. you´re at a good point, from where you can start calibrating. keep |
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