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| Author: | Rockets88 [ Mon Sep 10, 2012 12:34 am ] |
| Post subject: | Direct Opener. She didn't pick up. I see her 2x a week tho |
OK so i want direct with this HB at school on Tuesday. I went in and told her how beautiful she was and the whole 9 yards. Anyways we exchanged numbers. I texted her 30 minutes later to see if it was any good and she texted me back instantly. Now I Thursday i noticed that we walk on the same pathway to school. I am entering the campus and she is leaving it. I tapped her on the should and she said hi and i smiled! I kept walking. Now Sunday comes around and i am free so i decide to call her up around 1pm. I call... it rings a few times then goes to voice mail. Disappointing. Anyways i am going to see her on this path way at least twice a week. I am wondering can i re-opener her and perhaps build some more comfort and at the end arrange a day 2? Or should i just say hi and not re-open her then text her later? Or should i say hi, build comfort, not get a day 2 then see her again then try to get a day 2? Or should i just ignore her lmao. Thoughts? PS: On the initially approach i told her my value and i got some kino in in case that makes a difference in your response. |
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| Author: | Rockets88 [ Mon Sep 10, 2012 11:00 pm ] |
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bump |
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| Author: | TensionT [ Mon Sep 10, 2012 11:12 pm ] |
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From your post, it seems you're the one who is following and not leading. Plus, when you told her she was beautiful, you've put all the power in her hands. My sugestion (although I'm no expert on the subject  ) would be: next time you see her, make sure she sees you and ignore her, I mean, make it look as if there's something more interesting than her around you.
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| Author: | Rockets88 [ Tue Sep 11, 2012 12:20 am ] |
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What do u mean by following and not leading? I believe i still have shot at this perhaps i am delusional. Any more thoughts? |
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| Author: | TensionT [ Tue Sep 11, 2012 12:28 am ] |
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Quote: What do u mean by following and not leading?
I meant you're the one who is grabbing her attention. Everytime you do ish gets an ego boost. Stop doing it and she thinks "What' happening here?!". She will want to know what's happening and the only way is to talk to you.
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| Author: | Rockets88 [ Tue Sep 11, 2012 3:21 am ] |
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I definitely see the logic in ignoring her. Then again there is the chance she just never talks to me again. |
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| Author: | pumpington [ Tue Sep 11, 2012 9:28 am ] |
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just ask her out to do something, you don't have to overthink this so hard, you're in highschool, ask her to go gokarting or some shit that is fun, also you're not following by stating your intent, you are infact leading by going first, so continue leading by being the first to ask her out if she doesn't want to, just repeat the same process with another girl at school, and you can still talk to this girl from your post, just don't be focused on getting her out or sleeping with her if she is not showing interest and making excuses instead of hanging out, look for girls the reciprocate and invest with you, test the waters by being direct with your intentions, then take the lead, it is all a process of screening, you see what she does after you show intent and if she isn't looking promising, you just fall off and go for other girls, the more you do it and the better your social skills and status compared to other guys, the more girls will eventually become interested in you that you flirt with, you keep showing intent to the girls that interest you, just being honest and normal and genuine, they either want to follow or they don't, either way it's no big deal, there's always another hottie around the corner GOOD LUCK |
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| Author: | TensionT [ Tue Sep 11, 2012 11:58 am ] |
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Definitely, you should make your move, a direct one. But don't prolong this more, I mean, wait for her to notice you. |
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| Author: | Rockets88 [ Tue Sep 11, 2012 2:46 pm ] |
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Thanks for the advice. Any other thoughts? |
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| Author: | Aeather [ Tue Sep 11, 2012 5:05 pm ] |
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The whole thing about being a pua, is that you have to be willing to risk losing the girl. |
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| Author: | TensionT [ Tue Sep 11, 2012 6:00 pm ] |
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A few years ago I read some statistics (in a D'Angelo DVD, I think), that at the early stages of learning seduction, everyone should be prepared to lose 9 in 10 girls (90% fail rate  ).
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| Author: | Rockets88 [ Tue Sep 11, 2012 6:49 pm ] |
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Update: So i went to class today and i didn't see her on the same path. I am thinking that i might text her tonight something funny that just happened to me last night and see if she responds. If there is no response then i definitely know i am not in play and can move on asap. Or do u think i should just wait and see her in real life? |
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| Author: | TensionT [ Tue Sep 11, 2012 6:53 pm ] |
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Quote: Or do u think i should just wait and see her in real life?
I would wait to see her tomorrow face to face...you will raise your value by doing so.
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| Author: | Rockets88 [ Tue Sep 11, 2012 7:03 pm ] |
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I only see her Tuesday and Thursday so i would have to wait another day. What do u suggest if i don't see her Thursday? Should i strike or just keep on waiting. |
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| Author: | Rockets88 [ Tue Sep 11, 2012 7:04 pm ] |
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U know what i need to approach another girl to keep my mind off this X_X |
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