Finally got some kino going w/ this new girl a few nights ago and everything was going well; she even admitted catching feelings (i played it cool, of course). But towards the end of the night she comes out saying she wants to take things slow. That caught me off guard; I didn't have anything witty to say, and all I could do was play it off like it didn't matter. This ever happen to anyone? How do I get this moving and how can i bust her balls about it?

As I wrote in another post, I have other prospects so i'm not being short-sighted with this chick, but she is legit and i am tryin to make it happen.

But what happened before she said that? I mean,i just want to know if you showed "anti-pua" moves like showing to much interest or trying to rush things... normally when that happens it means that you tried to jump to seduction phase before she feels confortable and secure with you. Or she is just shit-testing you. But you must give more detail.