Met this babe about two weeks and wanting to make a relationship with her. After meeting her a couple days later I walked her home after work and she turned out to be rather quiet so I did most of the conversation to build comfort. Worked in as much kino as possible. The walk turned out lasting until 10 pm as she was enjoying the company my company.
She did mention having a boyfriend but said he was "alright" in a boring tone. So I could tell she wasn't too into him and I made sure the conversation didn't go into that direction - I wasn't interested in her boyfriend. I believe I made one mistake when the conversation got somewhat deep and I talked about spiritualism, universe, etc but she took great interest into it. Made good conversation.
Skip to a couple days later I text her while I'm out of town and she asks when I'm coming back so we can hang out again. So I made plans to see her again. This is where is takes a turn downhill. It's been just about two weeks so I'm assuming she's spent time with her boyfriend. I text her the other morning, she cheerfully texts back we make plans to go my friends gig on a weekday, gig gets canceled until friday night so I make joke about me playing her a gig from her kitchen counter, she finds it humours saying she doesn't have kitchen counters right now, I make joke about her not paying me for this gig, she doesn't understand joke, I say the imaginary gig, she replies "ooooooh. No. Sorry pal."
I quit texting there taking the "pal" to heart a little figuring I've already gone to far with texting. I have the option to go to camping/party with friends in the west friday rather than stay in the city for the gig. I was curious if this is a better idea considering I didn't set the plans in stone for friday considering, well, it's a friday night lot's of stuff can happen people can get busy. So should I risk staying in the city and texting her friday hopefully getting her to come out or just leave and maybe wait for a text from her or text her friday telling her I won't be able to make it to the show because I'm going to go party westward.
Also since I'm here just gotta say thanks to the community, first post, long time lurker.