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| Author: | MiniMega [ Fri Aug 24, 2012 8:56 pm ] |
| Post subject: | How to restore attraction if you didn't make a move? |
Ok, so ive been going to school together with a girl for what will be two weeks over the weekend, well in the beginning she was giving me lot's of IOI's but i didn't take action  and now the IOI's have dropped ALOT, but is ther any way i can maybee get annother chance? you guy's have anny methods for that?
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| Author: | MiniMega [ Fri Aug 24, 2012 9:00 pm ] |
| Post subject: | BTW |
I forgot to mention that i was thinking about asking her to grab some pizza(she said she likes pizza) over the weekend, but seeing as the attraction is pretty much lost i don't know if she will say yes. |
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| Author: | Arcos [ Fri Aug 24, 2012 9:54 pm ] |
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Asking her out to do what she likes sounds like a good ideea.Also, c'mon mate at your age relatioships come and go in a matter of days, you shouldn't have waited so long. |
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| Author: | Synth. [ Fri Aug 24, 2012 10:00 pm ] |
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Lesson learned here: PULL THE TRIGGER!!! you have gotta pull the trigger man, once you learn that you will be unstoppable  As for this situation, you don't wanna drop into the friend zone anymore, so instead of saying "Do you want to get pizza" say to her "I can't believe that you haven't asked me to get pizza with you yet!" Good luck man! Synth. |
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| Author: | MiniMega [ Fri Aug 24, 2012 11:01 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Synth. |
Yeah, ur totally right however i was totaly tweaked out on rittalin(never again) and i was coming down which caused me to be really nervous and having an overall feeling of emptines, i was really not very sociable at that point, but managed to get out; ...you are crazy, who dosent like sushi? (she mentioned it earlier) and i said so what do you like? and she replyed with "pizza" lol but i was to anxious to follow up with telling her i know a good pizza place id like to take her to, but i think you might have saved me with "I can't believe that you haven't asked me to get pizza with you yet!" |
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| Author: | Synth. [ Sat Aug 25, 2012 10:59 am ] |
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don't worry buddy, there's always something witty you can say to get a girl interested in you! by no means am i an expert, an expert would come up with that kind of line straight off the top of his head in conversation but i can only sit down and think for a minute whats a good response! so practice is still needed but just remember, there's a solution for most situations like this and don't be afraid to ask the community because somebody will answer your post! post back on this and let me know how it goes with that girl =) Synth. |
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| Author: | pumpington [ Sat Aug 25, 2012 11:28 am ] |
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indicate your interest to her, and indicate you would like to take her out if this is not reciprocated, move on, and do the same with a different girl if you turn a girl off through lack of action, and you try to fix it by taking action, but it does not fix, this means that she is not currently available to you (assuming you have rapport), and being needy for it, will only further block your cock in the future get used to the idea that you have to talk to new girls that you don't know from time to time, and actually generate rapport and make a move if you want to get anywhere GOOD LUCK |
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| Author: | Thedutchone [ Sat Aug 25, 2012 12:17 pm ] |
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Re-escalate. How hard can you find that? If she is intrested once, you will be intrested again if you play it right. |
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| Author: | MiniMega [ Mon Aug 27, 2012 2:01 pm ] |
| Post subject: | This girl keeps insulting me? |
Ok so i just started in a new class, and there's this girl who keeps insulting me all the time(in a flirty way), to me it looks like she's doing it to get attention as i'm the only one who dosen't give her any.. annyways i'm pretty sure this is a clear case of shit tests so how do i attract a girl like this? |
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| Author: | Synth. [ Thu Aug 30, 2012 1:56 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: This girl keeps insulting me? |
Quote: Ok so i just started in a new class, and there's this girl who keeps insulting me all the time(in a flirty way), to me it looks like she's doing it to get attention as i'm the only one who dosen't give her any.. annyways i'm pretty sure this is a clear case of shit tests so how do i attract a girl like this?
In a way, she is Neg'ing you!... you have got to neg her aswel and as you clearly stated, don't give her attention sexually, just have a chat every now and again and make sure she thinks you have a lot of options and that you dont need her, then she will want you even more!
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| Author: | boink [ Wed Jun 12, 2013 4:51 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: How to restore attraction if you didn't make a move? |
[quote]indicate your interest to her, and indicate you would like to take her out if this is not reciprocated, move on, and do the same with a different girl [/quote] This is absolutely the best response in this.. old.. thread. A girl invited herself over to smoke me out at my place, and I got too baked to try to attempt making out with her. After she left, I had realized how badly she wanted me to (due to her actions) and that I was an idiot for not taking any action. Without being needy, I still kept texting her (because we still had fun together), and then I told her that I owe her a smoke out (in return) and she reciprocated with "you do owe me", and we continued to have a hilarious conversation via text. This won't always be the case. If it is not, it is best to find another girl (or even better, many other girls) to talk to. And if you still want to try with this same girl, just reduce her priority in your mind (which shouldn't be that high! Do not put her on a pedestal.) and just contact her a bit less and more casually just to see if she tries to further the interaction at all. But, doing this while talking to other girls will definitely help. |
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