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Author:  Blitz88 [ Wed Aug 22, 2012 5:12 pm ]
Post subject:  Help!!

Hi guys,

New to the forum, and it makes for an interesting read looking through this forum. I will get to my issue as I dont know how to continue with my current situation.

Basically I have been talking to a girl and last week met her on a night out, she was all over me, touching me, kissing me etc. I ended up going back to her mates with her, and we were getting on really well, seemed to have a lot in common. I could of easily gone in and tried it on with her and succeeded but I thought to myself, this girl is beautiful, so many guys would jump at this chance, so I decided to keep it to kissing etc and not go in for the kill.

Day after she told me shes glad I spent the night with her, and that I seem a nice guy. (I should mention, she dates guys, but nothing really happens after that) She also said, we should meet each other and see how things go but she didnt wanna say too much as she didnt know how we will get on.

She said to see her the day after we have stayed together, but in the end, turned me down as she was too tired, which was understandable. I then asked when can we next meet, to which she said Wednesday or friday, and since then i said, wednesday would be best, im busy friday, and now shes blown me off again.

Also in our texts she doesn't seem to show a great deal of interest, just more casual chat really. She calls me every night now. I just dont know if shes worried about getting close to someone, or shes keeping her options open?? She was saying to me night i met her out, I was better looking than her, and kept saying how good looking i was, and that im different to other guys shes met.

So am i missing something, because I feel a little lost haha :roll:

Sorry new to all this forum stuff, so dont understand abbreviations.

Cheers Guys

Author:  Heywood Jablowme [ Wed Aug 22, 2012 6:20 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Help!!

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I could of easily gone in and tried it on with her and succeeded but I thought to myself, this girl is beautiful, so many guys would jump at this chance, so I decided to keep it to kissing etc and not go in for the kill.
She was too beautiful?? WTF?? Punch yourself in the balls and NEVER make that mistake again!

Your in grave danger of LJBF zone pal!
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(I should mention, she dates guys, but nothing really happens after that)
I'm guessing they all made the same mistake! They were PUSSIES!

Be different! Be harder to reach...be busy once in a while!

When you do talk, be funny, and SEXUAL get her worked up...then end the conversation early!

Make HER want to see YOU again! But this time ...seal the deal!

Author:  Blitz88 [ Wed Aug 22, 2012 6:52 pm ]
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Haha yeah, and I mean real beautiful, thought I'd try a different tactic as probs all guys would try that. Perhaps I was thinking to myself she would want me more.

So how would you rebuild this situation and create that sexual desire? What should I text, or say over the phone do you think?

She doesn't text back for hours at a time, how do I take control of the situatuion?

Cheers mate

Author:  Blitz88 [ Wed Aug 22, 2012 7:00 pm ]
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Also, do I arrange another date, or now leave that in her hands?

Cheers

Author:  Heywood Jablowme [ Wed Aug 22, 2012 7:23 pm ]
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Also, do I arrange another date, or now leave that in her hands?
You'll need to rebuild comfort, and build some sexual tension before trying to arrange a new meet!

Stop text-ing so often, go MIA for a bit. Let HER wonder about YOU!

When you do talk/text get SEXUAL. tell her you watched a porno and there was a girl looked just like HER! And man could she suck dick!

Don't be a kiss ass all the time, disagree, tell her she's wrong and should be spanked for it!

(I'm doing it right now over text while I'm at work! LOL)

Author:  Blitz88 [ Wed Aug 22, 2012 7:48 pm ]
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Haha, love it,

Quick question, because generally I'm alright in person, but texting is where it gets a little hazy for me. I think my looks carry me through a lot of the time, so got that going for me.

What if she gets a bit disgusted by it? Like, should I just randomly come out with it? Won't that sound creepy, that I'm relationg her to porn, like she might think ohh all he thinks about is me?

What other things are good to say over text instead of shit small talk. Hoe can I make myself attractive to this girl. Lol

More tips would be much appreciated, thanks for your replies so far, great help bud!!

Author:  Heywood Jablowme [ Wed Aug 22, 2012 8:24 pm ]
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When it come to text read this:

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When it comes to being sexual, stay humorous..at 1st!

If she shit tests or calls you out on it..tell her it's her fault for making you think like that because she is that sexy!

Author:  Blitz88 [ Wed Aug 22, 2012 9:27 pm ]
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Cheers man your a star!

What do u mean by shit test??

I need to back off this girl and let her chase me as well. She's got it too easy hahha. I'm guessing I should let her make next date seeing as I've tried twice?

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