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Author:  ClassicWiseguy [ Tue Aug 21, 2012 8:12 pm ]
Post subject:  Compliments, Too many, not enough?
Now, lets say you know a women or even a women you just met?

Is it better to compliment her?

Like saying Hello gorgeous or beautiful?

Or even just saying she looks sexy wearing something?

I mean saying it in a smooth and confident fashion, not weird and awkward, personally I have overcome that ;P
Author:  Disclosure [ Tue Aug 21, 2012 9:35 pm ]
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Yeah man, If you say it confidently, with the correct body language then I'm sure you will pass it off. Girls love confidence but don't be too over complimentary or you will look cringy
Author:  ClassicWiseguy [ Tue Aug 21, 2012 9:52 pm ]
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Got it! I was just thinking working it on several different women on different angles.

Im pretty good at pushing and pulling
Author:  Synth. [ Tue Aug 21, 2012 11:18 pm ]
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my view on this matter would be this, if your really a super confident guy and are a good looking man, then by all means compliment your target, but if you so much as lack a small bit of confidence or you aren't good looking, don't compliment her, here's why:

Beautiful women are always hit on by guys, maybe some of them 5 times or more in a single night! and what do most men do? that's right, compliment her! so she will have heard all the compliments before so unless shes genuinely interested in you on first sight she will just single you out as another "try hard" guy that just wants to get into her pants! don't be this guy! be the exception to the rule ;)

( oh and if its a woman your pretty friendly with, calling them beautiful or whatever is acceptable coz they will expect that from a confident guy )

Lambo.
Author:  Disclosure [ Tue Aug 21, 2012 11:25 pm ]
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I agree 100% with that reply, most girls if they are good looking will get guys left, right and centre trying to pick them up, so when you come strolling over dishing out compliments what are you giving her that no one else is? However if you go over and ask her something that seems off topic to picking up, she her guard wont be as high, and you have a chance at impressing her or making her laugh etc
Author:  ClassicWiseguy [ Wed Aug 22, 2012 12:42 am ]
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Cool cool, good to read this stuff.

I have been called good looking by several women and I do have high confidence so this should be a cake walk!

Thanks a lot for the replies guys!

I have never met a community like this before, where everyone is so chilled out and awesome.

This is where true men reside I can see that.
Author:  Disclosure [ Wed Aug 22, 2012 12:50 am ]
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You only joined a day after me to :) haha yeah I am impressed myself at it
Author:  Synth. [ Wed Aug 22, 2012 10:51 am ]
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its a good forum if you have any problems with pickup!

Even if you are good looking and confident, not every woman will want to be with you so i would think opening with something "off topic" would be still a safe bet to get talking to a beautiful woman and then make them fall for you using game, thats the best advice i can give you!
Author:  pumpington [ Wed Aug 22, 2012 12:04 pm ]
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it really depends on who you are,

if you are centered within yourself (you know who you are, and what your values are)

and you pursue goals based on those values, you can make nearly anything work,

if you are initially perceived as a guy with some initial value to offer before meeting (lets say good looking), giving compliments and they come from a place of approval seeking, rather then approval giving, you are in for a bunch of good initial reactions (because people like hearing positive things about themselves from people they see value in), that eventually lead to nothing because you lack the confidence from within yourself to give direction and obtain that which you know you want, if you are looking for direction you have not found yourself and you are unsure of what you wish to obtain, as you are unsure of your own personal values, or not certain enough to obtain that which you value

confidence and courage are not the same thing, the fact you are even asking this question, shows a lack of confidence

one guy can give out compliments like candy and make it work flawlessly, another guy can kill a set by doing so, it depends on who you are, and your own outlook on life

there is no right or wrong way, there is only your way that suites who you are, and what you want, if you don't know who you are yet, then you have to go out and find yourself

GOOD LUCK
Author:  skillmatiic [ Thu Aug 23, 2012 1:45 am ]
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Gary Brodsky and Alex Allman both have great books on this sort of thing
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