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Author:  sonix [ Wed Aug 15, 2012 4:44 pm ]
Post subject:  Stalled Conversation
So I have this girl in my office who I ended up talking to in the office bar last friday. This went great, good opener, 15 min convo, made her laugh and then told her I had to leave for a Happy Hour.

Sent her an email following Monday with a youtube clip of some of the things we were joking about Friday. Led to a day long emailing back and forth thing. During the back and forth she said "How was happy hour Friday? Is that what the cool kids do every week? Can you sneak me in?"

So I replied: "Happy hour invites are really hard to come by but I guess I could sneak you in but you got to make sure you don't make me look bad."

Her reply, "I will practice my dance moves and party tricks before the next HH so as not to shame you."

Seems like she wants a HH invite to hang, right? But at the end of the work day the conversation was over and we haven't really talked since. We don't work in the same department so we never have a natural work reason to talk. Now its Wednesday and I'm looking for ideas of the next move. So I email her or something or just wait till Friday and hope I can put together a Happy Hour group? Or anything else?
Author:  Heywood Jablowme [ Wed Aug 15, 2012 5:16 pm ]
Post subject: 
Send random email like: "Went to the pet store, saw a fish that reminded me of you!"

Open a quick convo, tell her you have a funny SMS to send her, and get her number.
Author:  sonix [ Thu Aug 16, 2012 11:13 pm ]
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Here is an update of what I went with. Word for Word.

me: hey, hows your day going?

HB7: hi!
whoa it's over
how's your day>

me: lucky you ... i still have another hour

HB7: booo
me: yeah damn all sales call
listen i just wanted to shoot you a quick chat saying im not sure what the cool kids plan is but we might do a happy hour tomorrow
i say might because us sales people get our bonuses tomorrow and people play hookie lol

HB7: sounds like a good excuse!
what time do you think you'll go?

me: like 5:30ish is usually the time ... if you are interested i'll keep you posted

HB7: yes I'd like to come!
i have to go to another happy hour around 7 so that's perfect
thanks :)

me: awesome! well have a good evening

HB7: thank you, you too


Thoughts? I'm intrigued by her usage of "!" in just about every sentence. Also how she flat out said I'd like to come. I'm not used to women being this straight forward.
Author:  Heywood Jablowme [ Fri Aug 17, 2012 12:08 pm ]
Post subject: 
This girl is defiantly into you
Quote:
sales call
PS I named my last boat "Sales Call" so when I played hooky, I would tell my boss I was on "Sales Call" LOL
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