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Author:  Mistick [ Thu Jul 26, 2012 2:22 pm ]
Post subject:  Alone without wingman, with a potential cockblocker..
I am new in the game, here are my current situation:

Met this girl in a pub through a friend's(girl).
I am not sure if she is into me or what, but with a soft neg or backhand compliment she will hit me or touch me.
Every time we talked, she will touch me or move very close to me and whisper in my ear. I read about Kino ladder progression, at first we weren't seated very close but as we know each other more, she moved in close to sit next to me. With her leg touching mine (not cross or anything, just skin contact).
I progress the kino from slight touch to touching her hand directly before i go in for the number close but no kiss close.

The following night (First Night after the meeting), I texted her first and we progress, and even set to meet up in the coming weekend.

But on the following night (Second Night after the meeting), she texted me and mentioning that our mutual friend (the one intro'ed her to me) wanna join us on our meeting.
Author:  Dostoeschweffsky [ Thu Jul 26, 2012 7:24 pm ]
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Is the friend a bloke or a woman?

If it's a girl, I'd think of maybe bringing a male friend of your own so you can pair them off quickly and distract the friend.

If it's a guy, it kind of depends. It sounds like it was the friend's idea, not the girl's, for them to come along. If you're confident that you come across as a strong alpha male, you could risk just letting him come along, especially in a pub/club setting where he can probably get distracted easily.

Or, bring another girl along (to distract/pair off) and secretly imply to your target that you "think they'd get on well" or something. This could work in your favour for a few reasons.

Number one - sharing confidential thoughts is a great attractor. If you cheekily let her know you think he could be set up with a girl you know, you will be sharing playful stuff confidentially with her. It makes you seem clever, switched-on, important, sexy etc.

Number two - If you and her have a plan to get these other two chatting to eachother, in her mind it will remove him from the state of play a bit. If you say something like "I know this girl I think (x) would really get on with", there is a strong subtext that you are both "in on" letting them talk to eachother/maybe hit it off.

Can you manage any of these solutions? It would help to know the gender of the friend.
Author:  Dostoeschweffsky [ Thu Jul 26, 2012 7:26 pm ]
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Ah woops, just re-read your post, I see that the friend is a girl.

In that case, same thing applies, but bring one of your guy friends on the same pretext. Tell your target you think the other girl would get on well with (your male friend). Pair them off when you get there. Sorted.
Author:  Mistick [ Fri Jul 27, 2012 1:30 pm ]
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@Dostoeschweffsky;
Thanks for the reply, yes I plan to bring someone along.. I just move into this new place so I am literally alone here. She did mentioned she wanna introduce a 'guy friend' to the cockblocker. Perhaps I will drag that guy out..
However, during the drinking, the HB did mentioned that the guy that she wanna introduced are 'perfect'. So i am not quite sure if it's the best way..
Author:  Dostoeschweffsky [ Fri Jul 27, 2012 4:14 pm ]
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Oh, that's ideal for you then - she's already had the same idea. Play along and make sure (non-verbally and by implication) that the dynamic is the friend meeting the guy, and the target meeting you.

Obviously you have to adapt to your situation, but if I was in your position I'd text something like "great, hopefully (guy) and your friend will get on really well" (adapt this to fit your style).

Once you're in field, try and steer conversation so that the friend and the guy end up in a seperate conversation and you and your target are talking mainly just to eachother. Captive audience :D

What setting are you meeting them in? Club/Pub?

If so, there's a lot of opportunity, once you've established the two-part group dynamic, to lead your babe off to get a drink with you and seperate out. Keep your eyes out for when you can do this.
Author:  GolfPro27 [ Fri Jul 27, 2012 5:19 pm ]
Post subject:  Solid advice
Very solid advice bro. If you can be cool and grab the alpha male role your golden. If you appear threatened at all by the guy you lose. Plain and simple. You can views this two ways. 1) As a negative and not rise to the occasion or 2) As a challenge and far exceed her expectations.
Author:  Jackloyal [ Mon Jul 30, 2012 8:08 pm ]
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Get a friend and let him take one for the team! :)
Author:  Dostoeschweffsky [ Wed Aug 01, 2012 1:38 pm ]
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Let us know how this goes, I am rooting for you buddy.
Author:  pokerartist [ Wed Aug 01, 2012 2:20 pm ]
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I would like to know how it went! seems really interesting!
Also keep in mind what golfpro27 said: see it positively and be up
for the challenge!
Good Luck man 8)
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