I believe that every girl is persuadable. I'm not going to use the term one-night stand in this discussion , because you may very well see her again, but i will say same-night sex - in other words, sleeping with the girl the night you meet her. Personally, I always try to sleep with the girl as quickly as possible, even if I'm aiming for a real relation-ship, because in my experience, it makes things so much easier once it's out of the way. There, I said it!

Why same night-sex?

Sometimes you meet and feel a strong sexual vibe. If you took that particular girl's number and agreed to meet another time, that spark might be gone. I've had my best experiences when things seemed just perfect on the first night I met a girl. If you want a casual relationship, sleeping with her before she knows you well enough to become emotionally attached is the right policy. If you want something deeper, sleeping with her quickly so that you can both become more relaxed with each other is also the right policy.
Remember, I'm a pickup artist. I'm not grabbign a jaded, drunk chick off the dance floor at 2:00 AM. I'm meeting a beautiful girl, usually the best in the club- and partway through the night I"m getting to know her, then (usually!) taking her home later. This means we can create a romantic, intimate, passionate experience. I love romance, a perfect Hollywood moment; I don't like quick sex in the bathroom. And I think you can get this on the same night you've met if you're both pretty sober and have more than just a physical connection. I've done everything from twenty minutes street-to-house with a super hot model (the hottest girl I ever slept with) to a ten-hour seducation marathon filled with objections from a virgin. ( I wasn't being a bastard, and she eventually became my girlfriend). The bottom line is that there are different types of same-night sex, and it generally depends on the girl.

How to lead a girl to same-night sex

So what kind of girls tend to be interested in same-night sex? There's a suprisingly wide range, from 'ready to go' girls, to 'just this once' girs, to girls who protest, "I'm not that kind of girl.' Each kind of girl requires a different response from you.

"Ready to go girls"

There are some girls who have same-night sex often, and with lots of different guys- in effect, one-night stands. These girls are not only open to same-night sex; they want it. What appeals to this type of woman is a dominant guy who looks like he can take care of her sexual needs and desires. If you want to be that guy, you should make outward displays of confidence, approach directly, and escalate smoothly from touching to kissing, telling her what you want to do with her, etc. With this girl, you can simply lead her out of the club and there won't be many, if any, questions asked about what's going on. "Grab your jacket", you can announce "and let's get out of here"

"just this once" girls

Other girls may have gone along with same-night sex a few times before, but it isn't something they're automatically agreeable to or normally into. They're not sluts and they don't want to be treated as such. Still, they enjoy sex and aren't prudish.
These girls need more than the physical, however, and will reject you if that's on offer. You can give them a taste of sexuality, but you should also slow down to show that you have self-control and take the time to get to know each other.
This type of woman needs to feel that Hollywood moment; she needs to feel like she has in a loving way; find out stuff about her and connect on it. Then show her that you're becoming more and more attracted to her as you find out more about her. Even as you're connecting with her on an emotional level, however, you can be conveying sexual tension in the way you look at her. In summary, turn her on intellectually, emotionally, and physically.
Often you'll need a reason for this girl to come home with you- hearing you play a song, seeing some photographs you took on a recent trip to someplace she wants to visit, or your cute little dog. Try telling her simply, "let's go somewhere else,"and then, if and when she asks where, you can say, "I want to show u something". Head for your place though, even while you're talking. If she objects to where you're taking her, you can say, "Well, you can't stay long; because i need to wake-up early". and then quickly change the subject. Do not engage in logical debate. Keep leading her and then change the subject.
If she objects to you verbally but still consents physically (for example, she says she shouldn't go back with you but still is walking hand in hand), it's usually a token objection and can be quickly dealt with.
If she objects to you physically and verbally, immediately stop what you're doing! She is not going to go home with you or do anything with you- and you need to respect her and stop it there! Learn this important point. Women sometimes like to playfully object and wrestle with you if they want to be controlled. This can make it difficult and confusing for men, because sometimes women really mean their resistance, in which case there's the very real potential for rape. If you make sure you're respecting your date at all times, everything will work fine.

"i'm not that kind of girl" girls
The third type of girl is the one that's not very sexual and will always react in horror at the thought of a "dirty" one-night stand or of sleeping with a guy so quickly. Connect with her on an emotional level first. Introduce a tiny bit of sexual tension, but just enough to generate attraction and to avoid being thought of as merely a friend.
Getting her back to the house won't be too difficult, because you'll generate trust and you won't kiss her before you get there. After you've connected with her on all levels, suggest going somewhere more quiet, more comfortable, where the drinks are cheaper, to chat some more whatever. You need to talk about future plans with this girl, things you can do together. If there are any objections, you should manage to get around them with, "I want to show you where I live. Anyway..."
Once you get to the house, sit her down on the couch or on your bed. Get the wine out. Give her time to get comfortable. After five minutes, go in for the kiss. You could have kissed earlier because you had comfort, trust, connection, and attraction, but you waited to the avoid the "Oh, I'm horny now; let's go to my place" vibe. The kiss has been "on" for a while, so it will be easy.
Escalate very slowly and smoothly from that first kiss. Anytime you sense discomfort on her part, take a step back- show her something on your laptop or put a movie on- keep it there for a time, and then reescalate. When the time feels right, offer an excuse to get in the bed (it's more comfortable); have an excuse to take clothes off (it's hot)- all while physically escalating. It's got to be like it happens by accident. Once she's naked, the interaction has passed the point of no return and should be smooth sailing.
Girls in this category will be much more likely to go home with you if you don't directly mention the fact they're going back to have sex with you. Of course, they'll know it on some level, but a much higher percentage of girls will sleep with you if you make the subtle shift from "Want to go back and have sex with me? to "Want to come for coffee?" Other lines that work well include "Want to go someplace more comfortable?" and "Let's go somewhere else".
The difference is that you're leading, not asking. People feel more comfortable in simply following rather than making a commitment to follow. For example, "Let's go dance" always works better than "Would you like to dance"?

Sex on the first date
For a lot of reasons, you might opt for a number close or a kiss close over same-night sex. That doesn't mean you're out of luck, but you've got to know what you're doing to move forward.
Most guys who meet girls for dates after a number close see that attraction completely fizzle out; or, at a minimum, they have to work through a number of dates to get into a position where they can take things physical. That's an avoidable problem. If you arrange to meet a girl for lunch or in a coffee shop in the daytime, your first date clearly isn't going to end up in bed.
So how do you do it? There are a few essential elements to the sexually succesfull first date;
First arrange a meeting at night. There's more of a sexual vibe at night, so you can establish a physical connection straightaway. And meet somewhere near where you live, preferably within walking distance. I arrange this with a girl by saying something like, "Let's meet at the local Starbucks. When's good for you- 8:00 P.M. or 9:00?" The question offers illusory choice on a point that's irrelevant to me in terms of result.
When you meet her for that first real date, the most important thing to do is immediatly treat her as if she's your girlfriend. Kiss her on the cheek, take her hand or put your arm around her, and lead her off to the location of your date. Remember that if she actually shows up for a date, she's attracted to you; that's a given. By treating her as your girlfriend, you're basically triggering all the feelings within her associated with guys she's dated for years. You're touching her like her ex-boyfriends did. If you're comfortable, she"ll be comfortable. If you're uncomfortable and nervous, she'll be the same.
When you arrive at your destination, let her sit first and then sit next to her. You'll be in danger of losing sexual vibe if you sit opposite of her. In terms of conversation, mix playfulness, teasing, the sexual vibe, and comfort-building.
For my first dates, I always like to take the girl to a spot that closes at 11:00 P.M., so it's natural to leave then and just lead her to my house.
If you don't have a favorite places that closes down early like that, you can say, "Lets go somewhere else", and simply lead her to your home. When you're walking down the street togehter, don't talk about where you're going. If she asks you directly, you can say "We"re going somewhere more comfortable" or "I know a great place where the music is better", or even "I'm going to show you where I live". You can also have a quirky excuse to take her home, like "Come and see my cat do backflips". (but if you go that route, you'd better have a cat waiting for you when you get home!)
One of the key things here is to try to distract her. Draw her attention from your destination by asking or talking about something else. "So, did you see that new movie with Matt Damon?" Then continue leading her and walking. If she objects to you verbally but is still walking with you, don't engage in logical debate. Remember that a woman has both a logical and an emotional mind. Her emotional mind is expressed to her body and her logical mind through her speech. Distract her logical mind.
When you get back to the house, sit her down (on your bed if possible) and give her some space. Don't get in her face right away. You're doing some crucial things here- primarily, showing that you have self-control. This generates trust, and she'll feel more comfortable with you.
After a few minutes, go into the seductive character again and build some tension before you kiss her; that will make the kiss more passionate and will turn her on. Kiss for a bit, then lay her down. If she isn't in your bedroom, give her the grand tour. Have something in your bedroom that you can look at together - a photo album, say - and do that sitting on the bed. Remember though- if she says, "Stop!" you better stop whatever you're doing (or trying to do) immediatly. If she gives you a more subtle objection, or you sense one coming, go back one or two moves and try to turn her on some more