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Author:  Xasthur [ Fri Jul 13, 2012 2:04 am ]
Post subject:  Met a girl at the gym...
And it went VERY differently. I am still trying to believe this, but I DO like the outcome.
Anyways, nice looking 25 year old. She opened up to me after we smiled prior in the night. We talk a bit, joked around half the whole time, but we did talk.
Here's where I baited her: she was lifting her girly weights, I had man weights and said "here, use these."
her: haha you trying to kill me?
me: nah later
her: haha I might need someone to walk me to my car
me: oh I'll do that :)
I ended up doing that, and then taking her for a ride in my Trans Am. No lie guys. She loved it!
Here's the problem: couldn't get her number, she was having some phone issues. But, she goes at night and said she'll be back Monday. How should I go about escalating this?
Author:  Xasthur [ Fri Jul 13, 2012 12:21 pm ]
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actually she said something about it when she was looking at my car.
Author:  newpua2012 [ Sat Jul 14, 2012 5:38 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Met a girl at the gym...
Quote:
And it went VERY differently. I am still trying to believe this, but I DO like the outcome.
Anyways, nice looking 25 year old. She opened up to me after we smiled prior in the night. We talk a bit, joked around half the whole time, but we did talk.
Here's where I baited her: she was lifting her girly weights, I had man weights and said "here, use these."
her: haha you trying to kill me?
me: nah later
her: haha I might need someone to walk me to my car
me: oh I'll do that :)
I ended up doing that, and then taking her for a ride in my Trans Am. No lie guys. She loved it!
Here's the problem: couldn't get her number, she was having some phone issues. But, she goes at night and said she'll be back Monday. How should I go about escalating this?
IOI she trusted you enough to ride in your car, big leap for a woman. I can't even get a woman's number after a hour or knowing her for a few weeks after seeing each other.
Author:  Xasthur [ Sat Jul 14, 2012 3:18 pm ]
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I have bad luck as well so I will be astounded if I can get this to go through.
Author:  Xasthur [ Tue Jul 24, 2012 1:20 am ]
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SAW HER TONIGHT. We met at about 15 minutes before closing (although I was downstairs for 15 minutes) She's pretty cool. She said she will be there tomorrow to. I gave her some rubber earpiece that she left in the car and she was laughing about it. Then, she gave me her number. I didn't even think about it and she said she got a new phone and gave me the number.
So you guys might know how to answer this one...WHEN TO TEXT OR CALL?
Author:  Paperbag_Hobo [ Wed Jul 25, 2012 2:33 am ]
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Tomorrow. Ride that wave of attraction you've built, ask her to hang out asap. Girls know about the three day bullshit rule; you're a man who knows what he wants, and nothing keeps you waiting.

read:

7-texting-mistakes-stolen-from-a-pro-vt ... highlight=

make sure you're not making any of these mistakes.
Author:  Sluggler [ Wed Jul 25, 2012 3:46 am ]
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Quote:
Tomorrow. Ride that wave of attraction you've built, ask her to hang out asap. Girls know about the three day bullshit rule; you're a man who knows what he wants, and nothing keeps you waiting.

read:

7-texting-mistakes-stolen-from-a-pro-vt ... highlight=

make sure you're not making any of these mistakes.
The link above is a very good start and should guide you.

You definitely want to avoid texting something "generic". Check out a post at my blog i just finished discussing this a few days ago.
http://theattractiveu.com/?p=37

Should help you get an idea of the do's and don'ts.

Sluggler
Author:  Xasthur [ Wed Jul 25, 2012 4:37 am ]
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Alright, I WILL read up on that stuff later on. Thanks guys. But, while you guys were replying, we were OUT.
I went tonight, she asked me if I wanted to do something tonight literally right before I was going to. So, we did. Went to the bar, talked, laughed, made out, and I'm home. This is awesome.
Author:  Xasthur [ Thu Jul 26, 2012 12:33 pm ]
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So we hung out at the beach last night. Before we left, she said she wanted to take things slow and explained she was a little drunk that night. So my friend told me to send her a certain text message when we got home. "I enjoy spending time with you and we can take it as slow as you like. I think you're worth it." I added in the last part, but would like your input on this. I think I'm going to just stay home tonight and see if she talks to me.
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