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Forget about the Friend zone, it does not exist... I was always terrified about it and it screw me a lot of times.

With my last girlfriend I was inside of the friend zone, we were friends for 6 months before I started to date her. And at some point I started to fall for this girl, to the point that I was not able to sleep anymore. So yeah one day after 6 months of being her friend, when I grabbed my balls I said to her: "I'm can't sleep anymore because I'm all the time thinking about you, do you want to be my girlfriend?" and went for the kiss.

She did not kiss back, and she replied with a: "NO" to me, and she send me a mail that she liked me as a friend.

One week later we kissed again, this time she kissed back.
2 weeks after she told me "I need to take a shower, do you want to join?"

if someone came out of the friend zone that was me. I screw up many possible relationships by being scared about the friend zone and acting in a creepy, non natural way. So do not fear it, don't let the fear of entering into the friend zone ruin your chances, you can always come out of it.

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Friend zones exists, I was with this girl who had way to many male friends, even though we clicked on almost everything and I spent the day there with her for 6+ hours and having fun, it never worked out. She never called me, DTB....

That's awesome that that happened, however, sometimes the girl will not even talk or text you after you try a move or tell her your feelings, so how do you get her to even hang out with you after shes like pretty much avoiding you?

some point in the hooking stage convey to her that you are intrested in her (more then just being friends) for example i use " we get along great but, look, i'm not here to make a new bestfriend or anything, i'm here to have fun, and i find you oddly attractive right now, so before we go any further, i just wanted you to know where i stand" and proceed from there. She will get what you are telling her without you saying " look, i just want to fuck you". no to harsh and to the point.

Author:	James Brown [ Tue Jul 10, 2012 9:19 pm ]
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Hello hello, I'm having a problem with being stuck in the friend zone and wondering where I'm going wrong. How do I signal my sexual intention from the opener so the girl knows I'm talking to her because i like her and create sexual tension. Any tips, ideas or suggestions.

Author:	HurricaneMatt [ Thu Jul 12, 2012 6:15 am ]
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Tell her she is cute and ask if she has a boyfriend. High risk high reward.

Author:	EarlyBird [ Fri Jul 13, 2012 9:53 pm ]
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Just try to flirt some more and be a challenge for her, girls love it when a guy is one of a kind, so be sure you let her know that ! Haha Also, tease her a bit, it works for me though ! Ceeyah and goodluck man !

Author:	worldrunner [ Sat Jul 14, 2012 12:22 am ]
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Forget about the Friend zone, it does not exist... I was always terrified about it and it screw me a lot of times. With my last girlfriend I was inside of the friend zone, we were friends for 6 months before I started to date her. And at some point I started to fall for this girl, to the point that I was not able to sleep anymore. So yeah one day after 6 months of being her friend, when I grabbed my balls I said to her: "I'm can't sleep anymore because I'm all the time thinking about you, do you want to be my girlfriend?" and went for the kiss. She did not kiss back, and she replied with a: "NO" to me, and she send me a mail that she liked me as a friend. One week later we kissed again, this time she kissed back. 2 weeks after she told me "I need to take a shower, do you want to join?" if someone came out of the friend zone that was me. I screw up many possible relationships by being scared about the friend zone and acting in a creepy, non natural way. So do not fear it, don't let the fear of entering into the friend zone ruin your chances, you can always come out of it.

Author:	Jackloyal [ Sat Jul 14, 2012 12:53 am ]
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Quote: Forget about the Friend zone, it does not exist... I was always terrified about it and it screw me a lot of times. With my last girlfriend I was inside of the friend zone, we were friends for 6 months before I started to date her. And at some point I started to fall for this girl, to the point that I was not able to sleep anymore. So yeah one day after 6 months of being her friend, when I grabbed my balls I said to her: "I'm can't sleep anymore because I'm all the time thinking about you, do you want to be my girlfriend?" and went for the kiss. She did not kiss back, and she replied with a: "NO" to me, and she send me a mail that she liked me as a friend. One week later we kissed again, this time she kissed back. 2 weeks after she told me "I need to take a shower, do you want to join?" if someone came out of the friend zone that was me. I screw up many possible relationships by being scared about the friend zone and acting in a creepy, non natural way. So do not fear it, don't let the fear of entering into the friend zone ruin your chances, you can always come out of it. I like this.. nice job

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Author:	newpua2012 [ Sat Jul 14, 2012 5:33 am ]
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Quote: Forget about the Friend zone, it does not exist... I was always terrified about it and it screw me a lot of times. With my last girlfriend I was inside of the friend zone, we were friends for 6 months before I started to date her. And at some point I started to fall for this girl, to the point that I was not able to sleep anymore. So yeah one day after 6 months of being her friend, when I grabbed my balls I said to her: "I'm can't sleep anymore because I'm all the time thinking about you, do you want to be my girlfriend?" and went for the kiss. She did not kiss back, and she replied with a: "NO" to me, and she send me a mail that she liked me as a friend. One week later we kissed again, this time she kissed back. 2 weeks after she told me "I need to take a shower, do you want to join?" if someone came out of the friend zone that was me. I screw up many possible relationships by being scared about the friend zone and acting in a creepy, non natural way. So do not fear it, don't let the fear of entering into the friend zone ruin your chances, you can always come out of it. Friend zones exists, I was with this girl who had way to many male friends, even though we clicked on almost everything and I spent the day there with her for 6+ hours and having fun, it never worked out. She never called me, DTB....

Author:	TheMainTrick [ Sun Jul 15, 2012 5:53 am ]
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Quote: Quote: Forget about the Friend zone, it does not exist... I was always terrified about it and it screw me a lot of times. With my last girlfriend I was inside of the friend zone, we were friends for 6 months before I started to date her. And at some point I started to fall for this girl, to the point that I was not able to sleep anymore. So yeah one day after 6 months of being her friend, when I grabbed my balls I said to her: "I'm can't sleep anymore because I'm all the time thinking about you, do you want to be my girlfriend?" and went for the kiss. She did not kiss back, and she replied with a: "NO" to me, and she send me a mail that she liked me as a friend. One week later we kissed again, this time she kissed back. 2 weeks after she told me "I need to take a shower, do you want to join?" if someone came out of the friend zone that was me. I screw up many possible relationships by being scared about the friend zone and acting in a creepy, non natural way. So do not fear it, don't let the fear of entering into the friend zone ruin your chances, you can always come out of it. Friend zones exists, I was with this girl who had way to many male friends, even though we clicked on almost everything and I spent the day there with her for 6+ hours and having fun, it never worked out. She never called me, DTB.... That's awesome that that happened, however, sometimes the girl will not even talk or text you after you try a move or tell her your feelings, so how do you get her to even hang out with you after shes like pretty much avoiding you?

Author:	cottontail [ Sun Jul 15, 2012 7:03 pm ]
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Quote: Forget about the Friend zone, it does not exist... I was always terrified about it and it screw me a lot of times. With my last girlfriend I was inside of the friend zone, we were friends for 6 months before I started to date her. And at some point I started to fall for this girl, to the point that I was not able to sleep anymore. So yeah one day after 6 months of being her friend, when I grabbed my balls I said to her: "I'm can't sleep anymore because I'm all the time thinking about you, do you want to be my girlfriend?" and went for the kiss. She did not kiss back, and she replied with a: "NO" to me, and she send me a mail that she liked me as a friend. One week later we kissed again, this time she kissed back. 2 weeks after she told me "I need to take a shower, do you want to join?" if someone came out of the friend zone that was me. I screw up many possible relationships by being scared about the friend zone and acting in a creepy, non natural way. So do not fear it, don't let the fear of entering into the friend zone ruin your chances, you can always come out of it. Great stuff! I've seen similar things happen to, and it has happend to me aswell.

Author:	worldrunner [ Mon Jul 16, 2012 9:43 am ]
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Quote: That's awesome that that happened, however, sometimes the girl will not even talk or text you after you try a move or tell her your feelings, so how do you get her to even hang out with you after shes like pretty much avoiding you? 1st. You have to respect her "NO" meaning you'll not force her to do anything she doesn't want. 2nd. Why do you want to hang out with someone who doesn't accept who you are? and who you are is someone who has some feelings and emotions for her. Just let her know that. Show that you respect her "NO" by not forcing her or trying to convince her, but respect yourself by once in a while bombarding her with flirty comments, showing how you feel. If she can't respect you for sharing what you feel be glad that she wants to avoid you, you do not want to hang out with a person who treats you that way.

Author:	NonStopReaper [ Mon Jul 16, 2012 11:28 am ]
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some point in the hooking stage convey to her that you are intrested in her (more then just being friends) for example i use " we get along great but, look, i'm not here to make a new bestfriend or anything, i'm here to have fun, and i find you oddly attractive right now, so before we go any further, i just wanted you to know where i stand" and proceed from there. She will get what you are telling her without you saying " look, i just want to fuck you". no to harsh and to the point.

Author:	worldrunner [ Mon Jul 16, 2012 2:44 pm ]
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Quote: some point in the hooking stage convey to her that you are intrested in her (more then just being friends) for example i use " we get along great but, look, i'm not here to make a new bestfriend or anything, i'm here to have fun, and i find you oddly attractive right now, so before we go any further, i just wanted you to know where i stand" and proceed from there. She will get what you are telling her without you saying " look, i just want to fuck you". no to harsh and to the point. Yeah you can say that but you need to know your strong points and your own style. For example I think one of my strongest and most attractive points as a person are that I'm a very good easy going friend. Yet I tried to hard to change myself for years to become more alpha, I acted weird, creepy and screw up a lot of times because of fear from the friend zone. To discover later that I could use my "nice guy", good friend, natural personality as a weapon and that just needed to spice my personality a little with some flirty attitude from time to time, and using my balls to speak out my truth and act according to my principles when needed.

Author:	Heywood Jablowme [ Mon Jul 16, 2012 4:33 pm ]
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I think sometimes too much worry and emphasis is being placed on the term "friend zone"! concentrate more on being a sexual confidant male! Even if you have known her a long time, or you've just met. If you feel like being sexual...do that! If she responds, escalate if you chose too. If she doesn't respond, says she is uncomfortable STOP! Most Women will not be insulted at proper sexual advances, it will only boost their ego. She will let you know! Learn to read her signals. I am not about to turn down a chance with a hot ass girl I'm having some one on one time with, just because it did not work out before! If your getting "Friend Zoned" every time, it's because you are not being sexual enough, or escalating to the next level. So if you get the vibe that you are going to get "Friend Zoned" move quickly become sexual, or move on.

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