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Author:  ChilangoTX [ Tue Jun 26, 2012 7:45 am ]
Post subject:  Hard of hearing, keeping up with convo?
Hey guys!, I'm freshly new in this forum and I'm more than ready to explore the PUA style in America (I'm from Mexico btw).
Well, to my luck, I have not had any problems approaching women and woo them (I think Asian girls are super cute and easy to talk to) and of course I have my fair share of rejects. But, my game works much better during nights at clubs/bars where everybody is having fun and enjoying each other. However, because of the loud noise indoors, I find it difficult to understand women who happen to have accents or soft voices. I was born sorta deaf but in a sense where I struggle only with speech understanding, but somehow it only affects me when I communicate in English. So, what do you guys do when you are in a situation in which you cannot understand the girl and you really want to make everything enjoyable?

Also, one last question, because I'm an economically independent full time student and worker, I have a shitload bills and things to pay so I have yet to own a car. Do most girls care if you take them to your pads on taxi cabs? I ask this because I've had mixed results from different women who would act either negatively or positively about us riding a cab. Sometimes I even have to pull the "I had a couple drinks so I don't want to drive and possibly, run the risk of getting you involved in an automobile accident" bullshit to be able to take her home lol.

I look forward to reading your replies and ideas. Very much appreciated. :D
Author:  preps [ Tue Jun 26, 2012 8:21 am ]
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Hey Chilango a couple things taxi cabs shouldn't be an issue with bouncing a woman to your place if you have the high value intiated at the start of the interaction it shouldn't be an problem. You can pull the "my buddy left with what i presume to be a transvestite line" gets a laugh and its a reason why you have no ride.

When it comes to noise you can always leave the venue to do a different activity this is going to be pretty challenging for your attraction stage of the game if it is a medical thing.

But going outside the venue for a smoke with them or to just hear them better is completely understandable
Author:  ChilangoTX [ Wed Jun 27, 2012 6:02 am ]
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Hey preps,
Thanks for your opinion. I've had a car before so now when I ride the cab with girls it feels super lame, but with what you said, I thought about the importance of keeping her interested before and during the ride, so I guess as long as I give her attention she won't mind the cab. You gave a good point.
For the hearing issue, yeah, I sometimes rely on venues with open areas for this specific issue. Unfortunately, not a lot of venues or bars have open areas, so I'm still finding other ways to keep game going. I tried asking her to text what I couldn't understand while holding her back and pulling her close so she would feel closer to me. But seriously, this can be annoying for girls to do at times lol, specially when they have been drinking they can't text for shit LOL.
Author:  preps [ Wed Jun 27, 2012 8:39 am ]
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Ha! well again you are only as comfortable as you feel, and if she has invested enough into you there really is nothing you can say or do to put her away. As long as what you're selling to her emotionally and mentally suits what she NEEDS you will be good (that's easier said than done lol), but i wish you the best of luck in all you gaming endeavors.
Author:  ChilangoTX [ Mon Jul 02, 2012 7:20 am ]
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Hey, well...last week I've been thinking how to improve my communication skills and my thinking lightbulb went off, it was time to put my deaf skills to play. One of the best skills a deaf person has is lip reading. So, I went clubbing Friday and Saturday and put my skills to test, instead of having the girls speak to me louder, I'd tell them "I can read lips", so they would speak to me in front of my face and Bingo! communication was much smoother, and I think it was an interesting point for the girls to learn more about lip reading and it was a hot conversation topic too, plus, too much staring at lips also led to sexy things ;). If any of you have communication issues at loud venues, I encourage you to try the lip-reading method.
Author:  preps [ Tue Jul 17, 2012 4:59 am ]
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You are totally right the lip reading thing is a huge DHV you can even bust in with a funny line like "So when i leave no shit talking or you are in soooo much trouble"
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