Can you just clarify the friend traits? I'm not always there for her consoling her but then again our convo is over text (she lives across the country so I'll only see her at school, which starts in about a month and a half).
She texts me first sometimes, I don't always initiate it sometimes she tells me to get on oovoo or texts me with things so its not a complete one way street. If I don't talk to her for awhile she'll usually message me, its not an every day thing, maybe once a week or so from not hearing from me. We used to talk like every day right after we met and sent really long messages, but its died down a bit (our convos kinda went on all day through the night and the next morning, but she did text me a few times a week to initiate a conversation before). If I tell her I have a game she'll usually ask how it went the next day too.
When I asked her out (well, I thought I did) I made a bet (she was saying she was great at something so I said fine first week you and me we'll play and loser buys smoothies) it was a long story but then she was saying she got smoothies the other day with a guy friend and was like ours isn't a date either
after she misinterpreted something I said (have fun buying me a smoothie) but the thing is is shes not ridiculously attractive so its not like shes out of my league so idk if it was a test or a nice rejectionAnyway, any suggestions based off above or just kino in college or kino in general help would be appreciated