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Author:  Warkid10 [ Tue May 29, 2012 3:19 am ]
Post subject:  Giving IoIs but no solid communication
Wassup, I've been kind of stumbed what to do with this girl. She's really confusing.

Ok we've been texting and she told me how she really likes me and Im starting to feel the same but the thing is, she enjoys texting me and always text me first but during the conversation Im always the one leading it with a long response. I'll say something interesting and she'll respond with

"Hahahahh lmfao Yeahh"

I mean what the hell! It gets annoying. And she doesn't always respond like that but 60% of the time she does

What should i do? Find another girl?
Author:  ShereKhan [ Tue May 29, 2012 6:04 am ]
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If you've got being funny down, then the rest shouldn't be too hard. Ask her genuine questions every now and then. Maybe ones that make her explore herself. She can't just laugh to a question. (If she just continues laughing, you better seriously reconsider.)
Author:  QuantumLotus [ Thu Jun 07, 2012 12:33 am ]
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In my humble opinion, I'd try to get away from the texting of this girl. Texting can't convey emotion, and emotion is where your game is.

PU works because its a way to build an emotional bond.

I wouldn't send her any long responses anymore via text. If she texts you asking something send her something saying - "hey, srry cn't txt now. Can I call u l8r?"

Then call her. Time on the phone is meaningful and counts towards comfort building. Its also good practice for when you get other girls' numbers. If you can get this girl comfortable talking to you, she'll be more comfortable with you being a part of her life, and see that she may become a part of yours. Texting is useless.

If she catches on at any point that you aren't really texting her anymore just act like you honestly forgot, and that its not a big deal. Try not to actually talk about the texting EVER. Just let that communication dwindle, then disappear.

If you can't get her to talk to you on the phone, then you can't get her to commit to getting to know you, so you didn't initially convey enough value. No sweat dude, there are a million fish in the sea.

Hope this helps.
Author:  esamz3 [ Thu Jun 07, 2012 5:28 am ]
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I've been in the same situation, it's like my txts were really long and it used to irritate the crap outa me, when I got a oneline rsponse frm the chick...

neg txtd her, "does ur phone company charge u per character or something... or do u have a shitty word vocab" this did get me aresponse, but not the emotional kind.

Then, I had to jst let go of it, kept ignoring every txt from her, responded the same way she did, short blunt replies...in short treated her like shit.. and the result she treated me like Gold ....got the emotional kind of response, apart from the txts - she frequently visited, hung out...so it was good.

The problem starts when v begin to lose our ground, the girl acts just a bit the way WE want.. and then we're back to the wussy mode...and that's exactly where the woman wants us...it boosts her ego, it's manipulation...u be nice and she's the one taking all the advantage. So yeah, if this chick is not emotionally involved.. doesn't call you.. then the right thing to do is stay away from her... and go fishing..plenty of fish available. ;)
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