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Author:  TheSavant [ Tue May 15, 2012 2:41 am ]
Post subject:  What should I do with this girl?
I met her at a club, and afterwards we chatted by her car until I made out with her. We were sober by then. Next day, I called her but she didn't reply. I send a engaging text later complimenting her and expressed my intent that i'm attracted to her. She replied saying I was sweet and I started flirting to build up sexual tension. We end up exchanging photos through text. We exchanged some more text the next day with some small talks, I invite her to a party but she said she was busy that night because she's made plans with some friends already. I didn't text back and waited till the next day. Once again, I flirted directly to her and she said again that I was sweet. Then, I may have gone alil too far since I haven't f-closed her yet and texted her this:

HB: lol You are sweet.
Me: I am, but not as sweet as the smell of sweet perfume upon your skin or the sweet taste of your lips when I kiss you... ;)

She stopped replying after that, I havent texted her 2 days later and tried to her once both without a reply. I did leave a quick voicemail telling her I will talk to her soon. Did I mess up on my last text or was it something else? I used to be too nice/friendly during text without any flirting or sexual tension, but did I go too far with the last text? I really didn't think the text was that bad. What should I do now? Call her another day? Any constructive advice would be helpful. Thanks in advance guys.
Author:  detox75 [ Tue May 15, 2012 3:02 am ]
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Next day, I called her but she didn't reply. I send a engaging text later complimenting her and expressed my intent that i'm attracted to her. She replied saying I was sweet
You basically DLV'ed yourself pretty thoroughly.

Girls like a challenge as its a natural indicator of high/higher value. You immediately gave up your power, showed your cards, and tried to trade approval for affection. Do not let a girl know she has your complete and undivided interest until AFTER sex, or possibly later to never.
Author:  TheSavant [ Tue May 15, 2012 3:17 am ]
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Next day, I called her but she didn't reply. I send a engaging text later complimenting her and expressed my intent that i'm attracted to her. She replied saying I was sweet
You basically DLV'ed yourself pretty thoroughly.

Girls like a challenge as its a natural indicator of high/higher value. You immediately gave up your power, showed your cards, and tried to trade approval for affection. Do not let a girl know she has your complete and undivided interest until AFTER sex, or possibly later to never.
I understand, but at the same time I been going for the direct approach. I use direct openers now like "Hey, you're very pretty, I just had to come talk to you". So far, it has worked great. But maybe I should tone it down afterwards. Thanks for the advice either way.
Author:  detox75 [ Tue May 15, 2012 3:27 am ]
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This has nothing to do with direct or indirect approaches.

She was interested in you after your PUA zen master direct approach. It was your subsequent actions that caused you to loose her interest. When you opened her you formed a positive impression of some alpha guy she may like, after that you sounded attached and slightly needy.

After attraction let the woman share the pursuit.

BTW: the followup you used would work with emotionally needy woman, however most HB's dont fall into this category so your results are going to be mixed at best.
Author:  TheSavant [ Tue May 15, 2012 3:36 am ]
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This has nothing to do with direct or indirect approaches.

She was interested in you after your PUA zen master direct approach. It was your subsequent actions that caused you to loose her interest. When you opened her you formed a positive impression of some alpha guy she may like, after that you sounded attached and slightly needy.

After attraction let the woman share the pursuit.

BTW: the followup you used would work with emotionally needy woman, however most HB's dont fall into this category so your results are going to be mixed at best.
Thanks detox. What would you recommend as the best course of action now? Is it too late? Should I freeze her out or keep trying? And what frame should I try to be now?
Author:  detox75 [ Tue May 15, 2012 4:07 am ]
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id freeze her out for a week but I think you overplayed your hand and it may be tough to retrieve. After a bit you could text her some banal quip and see if she nibbles.

Good luck!
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