Alright so, at the start of 2011, I started talking to a girl over Facebook who's 4 years older than me, she was turning 21 and I was 16 turning 17... but she thought I was 17 turning 18.. I've always had a habit of lying about my age to older girls.
Anyway, number closed her, and she used to call me all the time, text me alot, and we'd be on the phone for hours, but my game wasn't as upto scratch as it is now. So she always said she'd try come see me, but because she lives on the other side of the city to me, it was obviously going to be hard for her to find the time to hang out with me when she was working 3 jobs lol.
So after a good few months I just got sick of her and stopped talking to her, stopped replying and stuff, and about 6 months later she texted me with her new number, to which we texted a few times, she called me once, then I deleted her off Facebook about a week and a half later, coz I wasn't gonna fall for her phone game shit.
Now she's added me again almost 2 weeks ago, and when we first started texting, I ignored one of her texts to DHV, and then randomly called her the next night, but her friend had flooded the bathroom so she couldn't talk long on the phone.. But she called me later that night and we spoke for a couple hours and she was telling me how she used to smoke weed with her ex and the stuff she did with her ex, and I was saying how I smoke weed every once a blue moon so the next time she smokes weed, it'll be at my house, to which she agreed. My only intention of when she comes over is to get with her, don't really care about smoking up with her LOL just an excuse to see her...
Thing is, I don't want what happened last time to happen again, where we just get into a routine of never seeing each other and being phone call buddies, because I don't have time for 2hr phone calls every couple of nights... Like, I used to flirt with her and make my intentions clear back in 2011, but we just never saw each other. Friday night we were texting, and she told me she was at Crown Casino, and I asked her what she's doing in my hood coz I live in the city, to which she replied saying she was triple dating... And I tried to neg hit her saying, "Are you sure you're not third wheeling", and she goes "No, its 3 guys and 3 girls".
So once I read that, I thought "fuck her", and didn't respond. Now its Sunday night, and she called me 2hrs ago. I ignored the call, called her back soon after and said I was busy with friends so I'd call her later tonight... But I don't plan on calling her back tonight, so I can try DHV and see if she chases with phone calls like she used to.
Problem is, how can I escalate? Last time me and her had an argument before we stopped talking, and I'm worried that if I tell her I don't wanna play her stupid little phone call buddy game and that I want to see her instead, she might take it the wrong way and all the effort's gone to waste lol. I'd rather get with her and leave it at that, trying to brush up my skills lol.
And for the record, I do not see this girl as a potential gf, just a fuck-and-go, so I'm not interested in clinging to her lol.
any replies are appreciated, cheers guys