Hi,

I met a girl 2 months ago. First, it went well and we had a date in a week . Then, I made a horrible decision and was too needy, texted her almost every week. Now I read the book Double Your Dating and I 'distanced' or freezed her out or whatever you might call it. A friend of mine told me that if she was in that situation it would be pretty confusing for her.
Now, this is the deal. In the beginning, after getting her confidence and after dating, she was needy and sended me x-es after texting me or leaving me. Even once 3 x-es. At that point, I was becomming needy and immitated that behaviour, 'cause I thought she'd like me. Then, we hardly had any funny conversation, because of that I think. But, after freezing her out she is sending me those x-es again ! Just one, but I'm happy with that for now . I even made her jalous. My question is, how can I turn her on sexually and how can I get her to date with me again? She told me last week she'd like to meet up again. But, here is the catch: she most of the time postpone it due lack of interest of other guys I discoverd. How can I be that special one for her?