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Author:  ShootME [ Tue May 08, 2012 7:59 pm ]
Post subject:  Help me with this!

Alright so there's this HB9 in my highschool, we flirt alot, lots of IOI's and talks to me dirty! So the problem is in a party I k-clossed her and now she thinks I like her? Saying she doesn't want our friendship to end :/ Is there a way I can make her think I dont like her, that we're friends and like the kiss was just to have fun... Would it be weird if I told her she wasn't the only one? Cuz she wasn't lol! And do ya'll think there might be another chance for another kiss?

Author:  killermunkyz [ Tue May 08, 2012 9:27 pm ]
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Alright so there's this HB9 in my highschool, we flirt alot, lots of IOI's and talks to me dirty! So the problem is in a party I k-clossed her and now she thinks I like her? Saying she doesn't want our friendship to end :/ Is there a way I can make her think I dont like her, that we're friends and like the kiss was just to have fun... Would it be weird if I told her she wasn't the only one? Cuz she wasn't lol! And do ya'll think there might be another chance for another kiss?
DUDE! It's a shit test. The fact that she let you do it means she's turned on. She wants your cock bad. But at the same time she doesn't want you to think she's a slut because she actually wants a relationship with you and she knows that guys don't respect sluts. You can probably fuck her if you want to, but you're going to have to work for it a bit. She's just trying to not look dirty. Slow down a bit and build the comfort back up and then go for it again. If you let her put you in the friend zone you lose her. Call her on it.

Say something like: "You know you wanted to do it. I can tell by how you kissed back. I know there's strong emotions here and you're scared, but you only get to live once. Let's see if there's more to us than this. If it doesn't work out, we'll go our own ways or we'll be better friends. I know you're strong enough for it and I am too. Let's not miss out on something great."

Before she can talk back kiss her again. If it doesn't work, move on, but know she's still going to want it and she's going to be jealous of every other girl she sees you with, so you'll probably have a shot with her again. She's just conflicted because of her emotions. Trust me though, if you play it right you can fuck this chick... and soon. I wouldn't wait too long or she will friend zone you.

Author:  cbunz [ Sun May 13, 2012 2:02 am ]
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i don't really get the sense that she's definitely into him. it could be a shit test, idk those are just my instincts by the way you explained it. I think if you some how pulled off a situation where you were socializing in front of her and making people smile, especially good looking girls would make her pussy wet. But to be more direct with your question..one of the hardest things is to control your body language. that is what she'll will be reading solely to form her beliefs about whether or not she BELIEVES that you like her. you don't want her to believe that.

Author:  rakeal [ Sun May 13, 2012 3:21 am ]
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Tell her you kiss your friends. lol. I'm half serious.

Author:  killermunkyz [ Sun May 27, 2012 12:01 pm ]
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i don't really get the sense that she's definitely into him. it could be a shit test, idk those are just my instincts by the way you explained it. I think if you some how pulled off a situation where you were socializing in front of her and making people smile, especially good looking girls would make her pussy wet. But to be more direct with your question..one of the hardest things is to control your body language. that is what she'll will be reading solely to form her beliefs about whether or not she BELIEVES that you like her. you don't want her to believe that.
See, I just assume IOI's because I don't give a fuck if she's into me or not. Any sort of resistance I see as being a test to see if I have balls. Obviously that's not true all the time (probably not even 60% of the time), but it's all about inner game and mindset. That's just my mindset. All that matters to me is that I'm into her, and if she's not that's cool. If it blows up in my face, I just forget her and move on. Why waste the time on it?

I like what you had to say about body language. The body language is key. I think that body language has to be practiced and observed, but until your inner game is right it won't come naturally. If he acted like he didn't give a fuck from the start and had the attitude of "Damn! This shit is just happening!" then she wouldn't have even had it in her head that he was interested in more than sex.

Still this is 75% inner game. There is no simple line or routine that can fix this. All he can do is either a) chose to go for it and see what happens, or b) next her and move on to the next woman. Still, either way, who cares? 8) There's billions of people in the world and half or them are women. He's bound to find one or two others he finds interesting :D

Author:  killermunkyz [ Sun May 27, 2012 12:03 pm ]
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Tell her you kiss your friends. lol. I'm half serious.
lmfao rakeal! Hell, at this point it's worth a shot! At least it's the right attitude!

Author:  ShootME [ Fri Jun 01, 2012 7:47 pm ]
Post subject:  Lol

Well it's all good right now! She knows that I wasn't into her and shit because she found out I made out with 2 of her other friends ;) But idgaf because at least I lost my fear of kissing girls lol! In the past 3 months i have 6 girls counted make-out :) and idk but I think it's harder in highschool. Next thing is learning how to pick up in Orlando, that's where my senior trip is going to be at :D

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