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| Author: | white_rabbit [ Sun May 06, 2012 9:30 pm ] |
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So there is a girl who works at a shop I go to semi reguraly, I added her on facebook. She messaged me saying hi, but she didn't message back to my reply. The next night very early in the morning she posted a status saying she wants "someone to come snuggle" and minutes latermessaged me asking "hey what's doing" unfortunately I was asleep, but I think I have a good opportunity here. I know this girl is attracted to me, but where should I go from here? |
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| Author: | detox75 [ Mon May 07, 2012 4:09 am ] |
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she seems like she wants attention, how do you know shes actually attracted to you? dont get tricked |
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| Author: | Slip n Slide [ Mon May 07, 2012 4:47 am ] |
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Sounds like she's looking for attention, but still, go for it. Be decisive. Invite her on a date, have all the logistics figured out (but be slightly flexible if she has constraints), and be prepared to at least kiss close. |
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| Author: | white_rabbit [ Mon May 07, 2012 7:28 am ] |
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Well she gives IOIs in person, I think my reply was just a bit too general. But what I was thinking is how should I re-open, im not as confident re opening because I can't think of anything that I really think is likely to get a reply |
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| Author: | Vitamin-J [ Mon May 07, 2012 9:06 am ] |
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man up and get her face to face, your not going to do anything worth while online. |
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| Author: | detox75 [ Mon May 07, 2012 4:00 pm ] |
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by the way, any chick who publicly announces Quote: "someone to come snuggle"
is not a strong prospect.
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| Author: | Slip n Slide [ Mon May 07, 2012 4:15 pm ] |
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detox, maybe not for an exclusive relationship, but OP should go ahead and get his sexy on. Reopening is easy. "You'll never guess what just happened to me!" [what?] "Actually I want to tell you in person. Lets hang out on ____" Or you could actually talk about something. But make sure you're setting up the date within 4 messages. And make sure you get her number to confirm details on the day of the date. |
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| Author: | detox75 [ Mon May 07, 2012 4:25 pm ] |
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Bro lol I didnt mean for an exclusive relationship, that's rarely my angle as you likely know from our previous posts and discussions. Im just saying a girl that announces "down to cuddle" or "feeling lonely" to the world is generally a girl trying to elicit the most interest from a pantheon of chumps and AFCS as possible. I find by even taking this bait you are asking for trouble and a waste of time. If you can take a different angle into her pants then im all in favor of your plan. Im just too lazy, so I would likely move on after this red flag. |
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| Author: | white_rabbit [ Wed May 09, 2012 3:40 am ] |
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I didn't take the bait, I didn't even reply to her message, I only just met her properly. I had other projects to work on. I should have asked this more as a question of how to re open girls that you haven't done any ground work with, just previously opened. And for re opening I've been using " you know who you remind me of?" It's probably been used before but I came up with that myself, worked pretty well so far |
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| Author: | RedCali [ Wed May 09, 2012 6:24 am ] |
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next time she messages "whats up" it's as easy as; "hey just doing ____, man i'm ready for a vacation, ever been to ___? I'm planning on going there I hear they have ___....If you could go anywhere in the world where would be? What do you like about that place?" These are questions I've actually been asked from HB's before and work great. This will usually bring up enough material to go on tangents and have a legit interesting conversation. At least more interesting then talking about a class or TV show or some other basic and boring topic. |
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| Author: | detox75 [ Thu May 10, 2012 2:52 am ] |
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Quote: you know who you remind me of?"
Isn't bad, ive used similar, and its good to get them to bite. I think you are on the right track with going for a hook before getting them to qualify themselves or agree to any commitment.Ive been using "hey did you loose $87 bucks last time we hung out?" I have a jokey routine if they bite and if they dont bite you haven't lost face due to plausible deniability of any intent. |
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