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Author:  GreenEyed6 [ Wed May 02, 2012 9:56 pm ]
Post subject:  Problem with leaving a girl
Hello again PUA's

I wanted to post this in another section.. but I can not cos I do not have enough posts...

So this is my prob..

I went out with this girl several times.... and we made out, had sex... I'm not a virgin anymore yayyy(thanks to the PUAS and this forum... I'm getting much much better... its not much but its a start) :D I'm 20.... but the thing is I'm not attracted to this girl very much... and my friends say that I'm cool and should be with much better girls... and this girl I think she's falling inlove with me and she thinks that we are in a relationship... but I want to break things off with this girl... so whats the best way to do this.. I Dunno it's probably a stupid question... but I'm just not good at these things.. I dont wanna hurt this girls feelings... and I also have another girl that I am making out with but I dont want her to know that...

Any advice please.... I need something good... I'm a newbie at this stuff ( :

and thank you guys for making people life better :*
Author:  Crossfired [ Thu May 03, 2012 12:37 am ]
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Your first problem arises when she thinks you are in a relationship - when you had sex with her, you should have been straight up and honest if that was not your intention. Never make the mistake of assuming she has the same perception of your relationship you do. You should have told her before anything serious happened; whether or not she would have still had sex with you is beyond my guess. However, that is in the past.
What you need to do now is sit down and talk with her. Now is the time to be honest. Tell her what you expected out of your relationship, and do it in a way that doesn't make you sound like a heartless player who just wants pussy. Tell her that what she wants makes you uncomfortable, and you won't be able to satisfy her needs if she wants something truly meaningful. Do it face to face. That's really all I can say... But leave her better off than you found her ( or at this point, salvage what you can ). Good luck, and don't get slapped.
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