YOUR MIND IS GOING BLANK IN SET. The first thing that usually
happens when your mind goes blank is, the Interview pops into
your head.
The insidious Interview is the mindless stream of questions such
as, “So what do you do?” “Where are you from?” “What music do you
like?” The girl will see these as the blatant IOIs that they are, so avoid
asking these questions!!!!!!!
Use the interview as a tool instead of letting it tool you. When the
question “Where are you from” pops into your head, turn it into a
statement. Use it as an opportunity to practice adding value and
being creative.
Instead of asking, “Where are you from?” perhaps you say some-
thing like, “You know, you guys look like east coast girls to me . . .” [cali-
brating] “Maybe it’s those shit-kicker boots . . . or that look in your eye . . .
like you mean business . . .”
Instead of asking, “What’s your name?” Perhaps you say, “You look
like a . . . Georgette . . . to me.” See how this adds more value? Notice
the pausing as well.
The exact line is not important. What’s important is that you are
using the interview as an opportunity to add value in a more sponta-
neous way using the absurd. hope this helped!
