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Author:  Jaewon [ Thu Apr 26, 2012 3:30 am ]
Post subject:  How to build comfort to close for emotional hurt girl?
This girl I've been gaming is mentally all there and perfectly normal except she was raped (not like brutally kidnapped and beaten or anything like that) years ago. Now she likes me and I've pulled off K closes but I can tell she's very defensive even though I can tell she likes me.

How can I build enough Rapport with this girl?

(I'm seriously not trying to just F close her)
Author:  trex1024 [ Thu Apr 26, 2012 4:06 am ]
Post subject:  Re: How to build comfort to close for emotional hurt girl?
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This girl I've been gaming is mentally all there and perfectly normal except she was raped (not like brutally kidnapped and beaten or anything like that) years ago. Now she likes me and I've pulled off K closes but I can tell she's very defensive even though I can tell she likes me.

How can I build enough Rapport with this girl?

(I'm seriously not trying to just F close her)
This might sound anti PU..BUT! if u wanna jut bone her and leave u'll do her more damage. id say move on
Author:  Jaewon [ Thu Apr 26, 2012 5:12 am ]
Post subject:  Re: How to build comfort to close for emotional hurt girl?
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This girl I've been gaming is mentally all there and perfectly normal except she was raped (not like brutally kidnapped and beaten or anything like that) years ago. Now she likes me and I've pulled off K closes but I can tell she's very defensive even though I can tell she likes me.

How can I build enough Rapport with this girl?

(I'm seriously not trying to just F close her)
This might sound anti PU..BUT! if u wanna jut bone her and leave u'll do her more damage. id say move on
I wrote "Im seriously not trying to just F Close her"
For some reason I just want to help her and show her that not all guys are rapists lol.
Author:  spartan1990 [ Fri Apr 27, 2012 10:42 pm ]
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I have a feeling once she is attracted to you you need to be a bit more AFC and compliment her, yada yada yada... PUA games will only get you so far with her type.

I had a similar experience and just being yourself (if your a nice guy) tends to win over these girls, but it is a longer process and once you get there if your like me, you will realise that they have too much emotional baggage and probably cut them off... oops :P

it took my 5 dates to f close her ffs, but she was a HB9 and highly damaged.

Best of luck whatever happens.

LJ
Author:  vcwriter [ Sat Apr 28, 2012 6:41 pm ]
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Simple answer: you have to be slower and more patient.

More complicated answer: you still have to be an attractive guy, with a vibe that you can have lots of girls (and have in the past), that you don't expect anything from her, with a hint that you might go somewhere else.

In the end, she'll come to trust you if you stick around long enough to put up with her.
Author:  Every_Woman's_Dream [ Sun Apr 29, 2012 9:07 am ]
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always make sure this girl feels comfortable. try to make her feel good, because her experience is trying to take her to a negativie place mentally. You want to prevent this by making her feel good at all times
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