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| Author: | calaber24p [ Tue Apr 17, 2012 12:04 pm ] |
| Post subject: | When to know it is time to stop pursuing? |
Basically HB 10 Gorgeous has at least 15 guys courting her at once very selective. We chill a couple of times have lunch im sexual physical neg her i do everything right and I cant get her to text me back. I try the 3 steps forward 2 steps back approach and when I take the steps back she wont initiate the meetups with me. However I know she doesnt hate me because we hug everytime i see her. My question is, when is it time to just stop pursuing her ? Should i be the one who texts her every time to make plans or should i just back off? Thanks in advance I am in college btw |
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| Author: | RetiredRodeo [ Tue Apr 17, 2012 9:37 pm ] |
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Run game on other chicks. Let this one sit as if you don't give a fuck. Then retarget her a month later with a random/funny text. If nothing happens then - it's done. I kinda think it's done now, and if it is... move on, but throw out a hook in a month... One-itis sucks ass - keep that in mind. |
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| Author: | calaber24p [ Tue Apr 17, 2012 10:48 pm ] |
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thanks for the response I was thinking the same thing and I am pursuing other girls but was curious if it was done for her. It was a shame because I felt really comfortable around her even to the point of slapping her ass and not reacting at all. There are more girls though ! thanks again for the response! |
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| Author: | pumpington [ Wed Apr 18, 2012 8:16 am ] |
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no point in ever cutting ties with a girl completely unless they just never answer back or tell you to cut ties, the only problem really is if you are becomming needy for a girl, or obessing over her or how to get her, persistance can be good, neediness will most likely never help you I like to think of super hot girls like a line up, just sit in orbit in the line up, don't be needy, just be cool, wait your turn, eventually if she is attracted to you, you will work your way up in the line up, if you remain persistant and don't do something stupid (usually something needy), eventually you will make it to the front of the line, just stay cool, invite her out from time to time, and escalate when in person also don't really focus too hard on her or anything until you are at the front of that lineup, treat her like any other girl, just every now and then check in with her to see if you are moving forward in the line at all if she always flakes, or doesn't answer, there is a good chance you are at the back of the line, or she doesn't consider you attractive and you are not in the line at all, don't put any effort into a girl that puts you at the back of the line, just go find girls that have you at the front (this doesn't mean completely give up on the hotties just because they are currently unavailable) |
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| Author: | DonLeo [ Wed Apr 18, 2012 10:03 am ] |
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Quote: no point in ever cutting ties with a girl completely unless they just never answer back or tell you to cut ties,
I like the way you think! Completly giving up is like saying: "I'll never be good enough for her!" Just don't make her the centre of the universe...
the only problem really is if you are becomming needy for a girl, or obessing over her or how to get her, persistance can be good, neediness will most likely never help you I like to think of super hot girls like a line up, just sit in orbit in the line up, don't be needy, just be cool, wait your turn, eventually if she is attracted to you, you will work your way up in the line up, if you remain persistant and don't do something stupid (usually something needy), eventually you will make it to the front of the line, just stay cool, invite her out from time to time, and escalate when in person also don't really focus too hard on her or anything until you are at the front of that lineup, treat her like any other girl, just every now and then check in with her to see if you are moving forward in the line at all if she always flakes, or doesn't answer, there is a good chance you are at the back of the line, or she doesn't consider you attractive and you are not in the line at all, don't put any effort into a girl that puts you at the back of the line, just go find girls that have you at the front (this doesn't mean completely give up on the hotties just because they are currently unavailable) |
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| Author: | league [ Wed Apr 18, 2012 12:08 pm ] |
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i wouldn't give up totally but never send more then one unreplied text and defineatly game other girls |
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| Author: | RetiredRodeo [ Wed Apr 18, 2012 12:30 pm ] |
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Quote: i wouldn't give up totally but never send more then one unreplied text and defineatly game other girls
Like Pump said...Always leave the back door open if you can... I only nuke (end it permanently) if I have reason - otherwise, I like to always leave the possibilty open... Hitting a retread is a monthly ritual I like to go through... Search the contacts and throw out an empty hook and see if I can't get one to bite... |
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