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Author:  TheOnlyTaylorEver [ Fri Apr 13, 2012 10:22 pm ]
Post subject:  Dont know where i stand with this one?
I met this HB on facebook, hung out with her, kissed closed.
I barely texted her after but earlier in the week i texted "hey what're you doin friday?'
She said "nothing, why? haha"
I said "Cool, cause your hanging out with me."
She said "okkk :)"
I didnt reply.

Then yesterday, I got into a conversation where we both took awhile to reply.
We talked about Pokemon, cause it was an inside joke when we hung out.
I ended up saying "You gay!"
then she said "your gay!!!" and shortly after she sent another message saying "your so cute".

Now heres where i'm completely unsure of if I messed up.
I said "Is that another one of your seduction techniques? call me gay then call me cute?"
She didn't reply.

Then today i texted her "Stop doin that!"
She said "what? haha"
I said "Thinking about me so much, i can tell when your smiling so much. See, your doing it now!"
She hasn't replied.

Am I still good, or is she flaking on me? Is SHE gaming me?? I'm way confused with this one.
Author:  JIZZARE [ Sat Apr 14, 2012 12:37 pm ]
Post subject:  Nahh your good
She doesn't reply because she doesn't know what the hell your talking about.

"Is that another one of your seduction techniques? call me gay then call me cute?"
Thats real shitty material there. She has no idea what that means, people on this forum do but women dont.
you should have just accepted the your cute compliment. women saying your gay playfully is comman and you just killed it by saying that. But dont worry youll recover just dont do that again. dont speak to a girl like she knows about this website ;). youll go a long way.

"Stop doin that!"
She said "what? haha"
I said "Thinking about me so much, i can tell when your smiling so much. See, your doing it now!"
thats something id probably say in a phone call but not a text.

cool off take a day or two. get back to her set up a date and be cool about it. no more corny jokes she likes you but she thinks your a little weird because of a thing you said. its no problem shell get over it. just date her and be natural, you don't have to run more routines, shell get comfortable then fuck her.

have fun.
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Author:  DonLeo [ Sat Apr 14, 2012 6:36 pm ]
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What you need to understand that its not just the message that is so powerful, its power also lays in timing! What you did was using the 'Stop!' text to make up for what you thought was a loss of grip... That is not how you use it! The 'Stop!' text is only useful when you are texting her to make herfeel even stronger connected to you! You can only use it when you're going for a close of any kins next time you see her... not when you're in fear of losing her! Something strong can sound like something needy real quick...
Author:  TheOnlyTaylorEver [ Sat Apr 14, 2012 8:09 pm ]
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Ahhhh, both of those answers make complete sense. So basically i was "over gaming" her?
I need to quit thinking about staying in character and just be myself.
Oh and when i first talked to her I called her a seductress, thats where the whole seduction technique came from.

She ended up replying and saying "dang its like your in my head."
I was busy so I called an hour or so later, she didnt pick up, then i texted her a little after that saying "still wanna chill?". No reply.

So how would you guys suggest I contact her again to set up a date?

P.S. Thanks for the replies, way helpful.
Author:  DonLeo [ Sat Apr 14, 2012 8:34 pm ]
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Don't, at least for à little while! She already knew you would come crawling when she used the 'in my head'-line. And you did!

Think about it: you called her, she didn't pick up, you texted her, she didn't reply! If you contact her now, what do you think will happen?

Move away for à little while. Game other women! I don't understand tour rush anyway, you asked for advice here but you didn't wait for the answers. Is there limited time? Is she terminal? Is she going to br put back in her cage by her master because the circus is moving to another town?

Stay away and come back and game her later, it makers her forget how easy it was to get tour attention...
Author:  TheOnlyTaylorEver [ Sat Apr 14, 2012 8:39 pm ]
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I wasnt rushing it man, I wasnt gonna contact her for a couple days. How long would you suggest I wait? I'm hanging out with a different girl tonight that i met at a show last night.
Author:  Teamwerx [ Sat Apr 14, 2012 9:34 pm ]
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I would probably wait at least five days, or until she texts you - whichever happens first.
Author:  DonLeo [ Sat Apr 14, 2012 9:41 pm ]
Post subject: 
I agree!
Author:  TheOnlyTaylorEver [ Sun Apr 15, 2012 12:35 am ]
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Cool will do, thanks guys!
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