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| Author: | Popay69 [ Thu Apr 12, 2012 4:04 pm ] |
| Post subject: | The set leaves. |
Hey guys! I'm having a great time practicing pick up. I can now open direct/indirect succesfuly and handle a good interaction with emotions, jokes, stories, sexualization and kino. I can NC and somtimes even get instant dates. MY PROBLEM IS: * Somtimes the set just walk away (INDIRECT GAME) they can say "we are going to dance" , "we got to go" etc. and I dont want to chase them.. maybe it because I dont show interest? |
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| Author: | doclift [ Thu Apr 12, 2012 7:13 pm ] |
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When a set walks off, it's because you have failed to hit a hook point with them. They have to crave your attention. One of two things is happening: 1.) You're not being intriguing enough up front to the entire set or 2.) You're showing them too much attention too early in the interaction Be the dangling string. It's likely that you're coming across as too easy to them. This is why we use roll-offs and false time constraints. |
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| Author: | Popay69 [ Thu Apr 12, 2012 10:34 pm ] |
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Alright, I ignored the false time constant because I thought it doesnt really matter.. I will try it the next time I approach Thanks! |
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| Author: | NikAFC [ Fri Apr 13, 2012 2:16 am ] |
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Keep on practicing and your when your calibration will get better. There is a rule in pick up I don't fallow every time but in most cases I do. The rule is : Never fallow a set that's not interested. Once your calibration is ok. You'll start noticing IODs and you'll be able to bail these sets asap so you don't DLV yourself. Plus you wouldn't like to talk to people that are boring and are wasting your time anyway. It is good practice to always push it a little bit further than your game allows but it all falls down to what your goals are. If you wanna get good at getting them attracted stay in the set and try harder. If you just wanna SNL bail and go to the next set. |
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