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Author:  Valdemar1 [ Sun Apr 08, 2012 8:02 pm ]
Post subject:  Oneitits with a girl who is playing me and my friend
Okay so i got attracted to a girl, and at this point i want her pretty bad, but on the other hand i don't want to loose my image.
my friend kissed with the girl before me, but had no problem with me kissing her aswel, so now she i texting with both of us, and have telled me that she would like to have something real going with me and she don't feel like my friend being that type of person who she could have a relationship with, but feel like i am that type of person. However when she is out with him, she is telling him that she wants him, and all that sort of things, i am really good friends with him and we have discussed this situation with each other a lot, we agreed that we should tru to leave her alone, even though none of us feels like getting in a relationship with her. I can tell that she wants the both of us, and that she is trying to keep us both, or just trying to mindfuck us completely, either way we are both thinking "FUCK HER" so now i am splitted, on one hand i want her, and on the other hand i know that it would be "best" to just leave her alone, im thinking that maybe i should just fuck her completely and then leave her alone and ignore her afterwards? what do you guys think?
oh and we go to the same school!
Please answer fast :)
Author:  thedocta [ Mon Apr 09, 2012 5:27 am ]
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I have been in a similar situation before. The girl had serious mental issues due to her father dying at a young age, as a result she would go to ridiculous ends to mind fuck with guys..going out with multiple guys telling them each she loved them, because she liked the affection from multiple guys and the feeling of power it gave her.

You could try to catch her in the act the same way I did with this girl a long time ago...its pretty simple, just call her on the phone while your buddy is there listening in, and let him hear the shit she says to you...then you can reverse and you can hear the shit she says to him.

My suggestion is to steer clear of that bitch. If you do decide to get it on with her purely for the sex, don't let yourself get emotionally involved, make sure that you and your friend both know what games she is playing.
Author:  pumpington [ Mon Apr 09, 2012 7:45 am ]
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she probably just genuinely likes both of you and doesn't want to hurt anyones feelings, why you would go through the trouble of trying to make her feel bad when she has been so warm to you doesn't make sense, it seems needy

you are not dating her, your friend is not dating her, neither of you own her and she does not have an obligation to commit herself to one guy, she is free and single, you shouldn't judge her for her sexuality

just let her be free and if she wants to commit and agrees to commit and that boundry has been set, then expect she follows through and trust her, if she breaks the trust then obviously that is dis-respectful and she should be cut lose, but really when she is not committed you can not hold her up to these expectations, it is needy and you need to distance yourself from her if you are having these possesive thoughts

I sugest not being mean/rude to her, but rather just distancing yourself from her for a good week or two, do your best to meet a few girls in that week or two, if you like her just go for her, let your friend know what you are doing so he doesn't feel betrayed, if you don't like her, then oh well, more girls out there, onto the next one

figure out what you want
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