Quote:
I learned Pickup 100% through Mystery Method
We can tell by your avatar 
| PUA Forum https://www.pick-up-artist-forum.com/ |
|
| NEED ADVICE!!! https://www.pick-up-artist-forum.com/viewtopic.php?f=134&t=132719 |
Page 1 of 1 |
| Author: | gointothetop [ Thu Apr 05, 2012 7:17 am ] |
| Post subject: | NEED ADVICE!!! |
I learned Pickup 100% through Mystery Method and I got success but I really wanna get a more natural game going. I don't like having to go out and really "run" shit. I want a skill set that's more flexible. So I've started learning C&F and it's going ok but I'm really not "feeling" it. I donno I tried using it tonight and... I donno I think I'm kind of worried. I busted this girls balls and after making a cocky comment I'd sort of laugh and smile to break the tension. I KNOW IM FUCKING THIS UP. Tension = Attraction but I just can't seem to get my head around it. When I used MM it was the same. I really seem to struggle with tension for that reason I struggle with attraction what should I do? |
|
| Author: | glazecase [ Thu Apr 05, 2012 6:31 pm ] |
| Post subject: | |
Try a different approach everytime till you find that 'sweet spot'. You won't know you shoe size until you try on different size. If you start one that's too much tension and making her uncomfortable then drop it and start again and adjust. It's like a phrase I heard 'life is like a thermostat. It'll only heat up to where you set. If you always keep it low then it'll never pass the low point until you set it to a high point. Then slowly but surely heat up to the set point'. Does that make any sense? |
|
| Author: | gointothetop [ Thu Apr 05, 2012 9:54 pm ] |
| Post subject: | |
Does make sense. Just keep playing around till it does feel right. I guess I'm impatient. |
|
| Author: | glazecase [ Thu Apr 05, 2012 10:56 pm ] |
| Post subject: | |
I hear you. If it wasn't for my job I would be out every night. Or as much as my body allows. MM is going to get harder and harder to use as more and more ladies hear his popular lines. Mimic his attitude and his theory, not his lines. Good luck! -Jax |
|
| Author: | NikAFC [ Fri Apr 06, 2012 4:18 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: NEED ADVICE!!! |
Quote: I learned Pickup 100% through Mystery Method
We can tell by your avatar
|
|
| Author: | Buccaneer [ Sat Apr 14, 2012 4:39 pm ] |
| Post subject: | |
I use MM, but I am shitscared paranoid, that I am going to get called out on some line like: "hey did you see that girls fighting oustide?" Besides I think magic is really lame too, I am never going to to that. But here is the beauty of the MM Model: It is a social dynamic process, layed out in front of you. If you don't feel things, do the following: Develop openers, routines, DHV's and closing methods that are fitting to circumstancial things and things that match your taste: the city that your in, the time of the year, the, art you like, the movies you like, the man you would like to be, the food you like ot eat: anything. An opener is nothing more than a question or remark to start an interesting conversation with a stranger. Think about this and you will see that you are not feeling things, because the lines you speak are actually not yours, thus don't communicate your personality. That's why you feel lame: your gaming the girl, doing things you appease her, but you are forgetting about yourself. I also had these problems and I developed a lot of my own shit. thats is why the A of PUA stands for Artist. It requires creativity for it to be beautiful. You can start with making things more fitting. For instance: the cube. The Cube is pretty hard to master, but what I was afraid of, was that the chicks already knew about it. So I "introduce" the cube, before I start. Just to make it more comfortable for MYSELF as the player... ME: Hey, have you ever heard of the cube? Target: Yes haha, isn't that from the book the Game, where total loser learn how to say hi to girls. ME: Well I've heard these guys use it, but the cube is actually a book by a spiritual female writer called Annie Gottlieb (this is no joke, thats where the cube comes from) Target: oh... Me: commence routine and keep gaming haha, see. You just forgot to game yourself all this time. Make sure everything you do makes you feel comfortable personaliyt wise. I am for instance right now into meditation. And I use that as an honest DHV routine. But if I wasnt into Pickup, I would also do that. But then without the Kino probably LOL. Have fun, I'm sure this helps. Greetz Buccaneer |
|
| Page 1 of 1 | All times are UTC |
| Powered by phpBB® Forum Software © phpBB Group http://www.phpbb.com/ |
|