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| Author: | weaponx [ Tue Apr 03, 2012 11:59 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Building rapport |
This may sound simple. I know from last friday that I may need more help building better rapport with woman. Ayone have any ideas? E.g Matching body language! Also any indicators that you buit rapport e.g High five! |
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| Author: | JIZZARE [ Mon Apr 09, 2012 8:21 am ] |
| Post subject: | Rapport |
Rapport is based on bonding and communicating by the looks of it your new to the game, building rapport is based on how well you 2 can communicate along with flirt, this should lead to touching, making out and eventually sex. rapport shouldn't be something you stress about it should be natural. ill teach you. the nights you go out hoping for sex, you will never get it, the nights you go out not expecting anything at all, you'll be surprised at how well your night would end. always go out with a smile, never expect anything and youll get everything as with the girl and rapport, touch her, hug her, give her a kiss on the cheek if you have to, just do anything you can to be more flirty and playful. if you need an example just for touching you could say Me: theres something in your hair. girl Where? (trying to get it out). Me: (run your hands through her hair) and then say all clean, thatll be 5 bux (with a smile). girl: (what ever the fuck she does) my point is to build rapport it should be subconscious and 2nd nature, dont think about it otherwise you take the fun out of it and it wont happen. goodluck |
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| Author: | Smoothy1990 [ Mon Apr 09, 2012 9:06 am ] |
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I absolutely agree with Jizzare. Rapport is creating a connection, you can't force that. When going out, you should have only 2 goals: to have fun, and to have some good conversations. Don't make anything game-related a goal, you'll put way too much pressure on yourself and you'll try to force what should be a genuine connection. DON'T BE A SOCIAL ROBOT!!!! like consciously matching your body language or learning routines by heart. What you should do, however, is practice The same goes for bodylanguage, you can consciously work on your own bodylanguage to reflect a confident alpha male, until it becomes second nature. By then you won't have to worry about copying the target's bodylanguage, for she will more that likely be copying yours subconsciously. Don't make anything a big deal, talking to people is no big deal, touching is no big deal, kissing is no big deal, etc... building rapport is about becoming comfortable with one another, if you are the most comfortable guy in the world, they will feel it and they will match it. As alpha male it is also your responsibility to escalate, train yourself to read the subtle, unconscious signs that people give during interactions and respond to them accordingly. (those are the famous IOIs and IODs) Last but not least, the best way to build a connection is by having fun. Try learning some fun little games you can do, like style's 5 question game, or a lying game, thumbwrestling and salsa-dancing are also two easy and fun ones... But again, learn the GAMES, not the routines, don't start saying EXACTLY what style said to the letter, people will sense that you're fake and nervous. Make it your own Good luck and have fun |
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