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Author:  zookmaster [ Mon Apr 02, 2012 1:52 pm ]
Post subject:  Is it worth dating a girl with kids?

She is ok but I just want fun. I don't really feel a connection and I feel she wants to get serious.

I've not had many girls in my life so not seeing her makes me feel I'm making a mistake. I saw her once and it was ok, but I just don't feel like having anything serious with her. How can I date her and make it just....no strings attached fun?

Author:  Wolfwoodd [ Mon Apr 02, 2012 2:09 pm ]
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This is what the FB rules were made for: http://puarticles.blogspot.com/2008/01/ ... rules.html

Read them and follow them. Basically, you should indirectly communicate that you are seeing other people and aren't looking for a serious relationship. Soo.. only see her once a week and avoid doing boyfriend type stuff (like meeting relatives). Furthermore, hold your ground when she attempts to pressure/manipulate you into a more serious relationship.

-Wolf

Author:  AdamThomas [ Thu Apr 05, 2012 8:14 pm ]
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My usual approach is just to tell it how it is - tell her you don't want anything serious. She might reject you for that, but it's better than leading her on and letting her think there's a possibility of something long term when there isn't (which is what usually happens when you try to do it indirectly as wolf mentioned). It's definitely not worth dating a girl with kids, at least I don't think so. It's hard to spend a lot of time with them and they can be quite flaky because they have to put their kids first.

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