Hey guys,
I did my first direct approach a few days ago and got a number. I text a few hours later with the usual hey nickname do you speak text? Nothing happens for nearly 48 hours.
Then while I was leaving work I see a missed call from her and a text "hey, its you, are you still at work?" Well, I was gonna have a phone interview in a while so I wasn't really in game mode to call her and chat. So I just text her back about an hour later saying something like yep, i was at work at that time, did you make it home safely on Saturday? (I met her while she was returning from a trip, pulling her suitcase through downtown). Never heard back.
Okay, so probably not the best thing to say but I was too focused on my interviews.
My question is, is it because I didn't call after she gave me a missed call and I preferred to text (thus moving down the intimacy scale) or that my text just sucked? Or that I didn't do much qualification when I got her number? I mean we talked about what we do, where we're from, etc but didn't even try to identify any commonalities or anything... more like superficial comfort rather than qualification.
Is there anything I could do to turn this thing around? Its been like a week since then and I'm only asking now, a week later, because I had more interviews during this whole time.
Thanks in advance.
