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Author:  leuke [ Mon Mar 19, 2012 1:36 am ]
Post subject:  anti-frendzoning
so i use to have this problem, where no matter what i would always find myself in the friend zone with women. but reciently i have discovered a way to avoid this compleatly. im sure others have figured this out for themselves but when i figured it out i thought i should share it with you guys.

ok so heres what you do. if you have ben talking to a girl for more than a week or so, and you get the feeling that you might have the possibility of beeing put in the friend zone what should you do? well it hit me like a brick. i needed to do it before she did!!! lol. so you send her a txt or a message on facebook and tell her

"thats it, im officially friend zoning you. we have ben talking for to long to not have went on a date or anything. so i just thought i would let you know you lost your chance :/ lol"

not 5 minutes later she sent me a message laughing and saying things like

" hahaha hold on, i can explain.... ' bla bla bla' " etc.

so there ya go, how to block the friend zone.
Author:  smokeit [ Mon Mar 19, 2012 4:40 am ]
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Nice.
Author:  FMJ [ Mon Mar 19, 2012 4:47 am ]
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uhhhh, i think it would have to be a bit more subtle then that... your better off just asking upright "am i in the friendzone?"
Author:  leuke [ Mon Mar 19, 2012 7:00 pm ]
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@FMJ

your probably right about asking being more subtle, and that would work as well. but i was just sharing what had worked for me recently. plus right now i am working on alot of the "natural game" so im really just doing things that i usually would never do with women and enjoying seeing how it works out lol. but next time i will give just aking if i am in the friend zone a shot.
Author:  Suriyel [ Mon Mar 19, 2012 9:58 pm ]
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the preemptive strike is good but I agree with everyone else gotta be more subtle, or she might figure out your trick!
Author:  DDRQ [ Mon Mar 19, 2012 10:44 pm ]
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Just a question. If you ask her, and she says yes. How do you respond?

And I thought I'd give what you said in your first post a try.

Basically she texted me a while later telling me that she'd bet me she can change my mind... I guess that's kinda good it gives me something to work with.
Author:  errornz [ Tue Mar 20, 2012 2:02 am ]
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I would ask her on a frate. A frate is a combination of the word FRIEND and DATE.
When ever I use this word a girl will instantly ask me what a "Frate" is... I then proceed to tell them what it means and they suddenly think Im witty and smart.
This allows you to hang out with a girl mate with out her thinking that its anything more then just friends hanging out.
Now..... You can use this to your advantage if you really like a girl and your scared of rejection. Ask your self if you asked a girl on a date or a frate which one is shore more likely to say yes to??.... Frate of course, because its a no pressure hang out time between friends (Well she thinks it is) ... Just dont go over the top with the frate.
Author:  leuke [ Tue Mar 20, 2012 4:45 am ]
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@DDRQ

if you ask her straight up if your in the friend zone and she says yes then i would just leave it at that and maybe say somthing like "well i hold my friends to hi standards, hope you make the cut ;)". but im glad to hear that you gave it a shot on the anti-friendzoning and it worked out just as well for you

@errornz

the frate definatly sounds like a great idea as well, i could see that working for me. ill give it a shot :)
Author:  leuke [ Tue Mar 20, 2012 4:46 am ]
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@DDRQ

if you ask her straight up if your in the friend zone and she says yes then i would just leave it at that and maybe say somthing like "well i hold my friends to hi standards, hope you make the cut ;)". but im glad to hear that you gave it a shot on the anti-friendzoning and it worked out just as well for you

@errornz

the frate definatly sounds like a great idea as well, i could see that working for me. ill give it a shot :)
Author:  Greenleaf1019 [ Wed Mar 21, 2012 2:06 pm ]
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Just a question. If you ask her, and she says yes. How do you respond?

And I thought I'd give what you said in your first post a try.

Basically she texted me a while later telling me that she'd bet me she can change my mind... I guess that's kinda good it gives me something to work with.
Why would you ask her? WOuldn't that be giving her all the power?
Author:  smokeit [ Wed Mar 21, 2012 3:16 pm ]
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Just a question. If you ask her, and she says yes. How do you respond?

And I thought I'd give what you said in your first post a try.

Basically she texted me a while later telling me that she'd bet me she can change my mind... I guess that's kinda good it gives me something to work with.
Why would you ask her? WOuldn't that be giving her all the power?
Your the man, why ask her, your not putting the ball on her court. Your giving her the GAME.
Author:  Greenleaf1019 [ Wed Mar 21, 2012 5:32 pm ]
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Just a question. If you ask her, and she says yes. How do you respond?

And I thought I'd give what you said in your first post a try.

Basically she texted me a while later telling me that she'd bet me she can change my mind... I guess that's kinda good it gives me something to work with.
Why would you ask her? WOuldn't that be giving her all the power?
Your the man, why ask her, your not putting the ball on her court. Your giving her the GAME.
But you see my point right? By asking a question like that, your practically giving her all the power.
Author:  Musterion [ Wed Mar 21, 2012 6:43 pm ]
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Personally I think the "frate" idea is just a way of kidding yourself into thinking you're doing better with the girl than you are. The last date I went on I straight up said "We're going on a date together" she replied something like "do I detect a smooth attempt at asking me out?" I replied "Not much to detect when I say we're going on a date together is there!".

The friend's-date thing is just you stringing yourself along, be a man and speak your mind.

Though with all that being said, if you are trying to acquire a pivot.....frate could be a good idea.
Author:  MadTown Mayhem [ Tue Mar 27, 2012 10:19 pm ]
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your better off just asking upright "am i in the friendzone?"
No, that's something an AFC would ask. It gives the woman all the power and makes the male a supplicant, automatically, just by asking.
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