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| Author: | onzalimey [ Thu Mar 15, 2012 9:25 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Need help understanding rewards/negs |
Hey I was wondering if I could get some help on understanding how rewards/negs work. I don't mean the playful negs I mean ones where if she did something you didn't like you'd stop giving her your attention. More of a subconcious thing. Same with the rewards. If she does stuff that you do like (iniates conversation for example) how do you go about rewarding these types of things. Thanks 
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| Author: | PurePlaya [ Thu Mar 15, 2012 11:04 pm ] |
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Reward them with doggy treats, cause they're bitches. lol It's simple stuff. Like I leave my number with a girl and tell her to text me later. When she does I respond with whatever response and something like "by the way, I really like your name, Jennifer." or whatever the hell her name is. It's just simple rewards like compliments, affection, smiles, more attention, kisses. If I'm with the girl and she does something I disapprove of a lot of times I punish her with body language. I kind of give them a "that shit was dumb" look. Or let my attention wander around the room. Or turn my body away from them to indicate disproval. Or I become less involved in the conversation and give short one word answers or responses. If the girl asks you "what's wrong?" just say "nothing" and give her a look like you know exactly what's wrong. I learned that shit from girls that would do exactly that to me. Script flip bitch! Anyways, those are my thoughts. |
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| Author: | pumpington [ Fri Mar 16, 2012 9:00 am ] |
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negs and insults are not the same thing, a neg is a negative compliment, or a dis-qualifyer, used to challenge a girls ego, it is used to gain attention you don't even need to neg at all, ever it simply can flip the frame and make a girl a tad more insecure not being sure that she has your approval, since you are comming from a dominant position when giving out a neg properly, it is meant to come off as a compliment that didn't quite go so well negs are not insults, negs are not teasing her, negs are not jokes, negs are not backturns breaking rapport with a girl, is not the same thing as negging, though negging is a form of breaking rapport when dealing with a girls behavior, there are some useful tools you have, qualification being one of them, people usually act in a way that they qualify themselves to (at least for a short while after qualifieing themselves to that behavior) also, I believe people are only treated by other people how they allow themselves to be treated, if a girl is going to be rude to you, it is only because you choose to be around her and give her attention, you don't have to insult her or become angry, you can just bait her into qualifying herself to acting a certain way, and if the behavior doesn't take shape, then just ignore her for a while, if the behavior does take shape, ''QUALIFY HER'' let her know she qualified, reward her emotionally with positive feelings don't use negs at all, if you are not proficient with them, real compliments will do you more good (as long as you are not supplicating with them), then negs will |
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