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Author:  zookmaster [ Wed Mar 14, 2012 9:24 pm ]
Post subject:  Does "shopping" mean friendzone?

Girl I've not seen for 4 months, known her for a year and had a fling and year ago and we worked together. Well she wanted to see me on my birthday and I wantedit also but she contacted me late and I coudn't answer. She told me that she wanted to give me a birthday kiss and wanted to see me. This was the first time she has been like this in months. I spoke to her today and asked her if she fancied meeting and she said that she wanted to meet me early to go shopping. I was quiet at firest and then said ok I will watch you shop. She also mentioned swimming,and seems to like alot of these activitys where nothing could really happen yet she flirts alot and told me she hasn't had sex in a year. How should I act if I end up going shopping? lol

Author:  smokeit [ Wed Mar 14, 2012 10:22 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Does "shopping" mean friendzone?

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told me she hasn't had sex in a year.
Shit test ?

how did you respond?

Author:  zookmaster [ Wed Mar 14, 2012 11:47 pm ]
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Yeah she was like "I'm frustrated I'm going to go fuck"

I said "You're on a wind up" and then she was like it's been a year I said something like "oh really" and then I think I asked her if she really wanted to see me the night she said and she was like "I was going to have us go for a drink and take it from there"

Author:  Wolfwoodd [ Thu Mar 15, 2012 12:42 am ]
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"Does shopping mean friendzone?"

Well, it entirely depends on what you're shopping for. If she's picking you out clothes, buying you a gift, or shopping for sexy underwear, then I'm pretty sure you're good. :D

-Wolf

Author:  zookmaster [ Thu Mar 15, 2012 4:32 am ]
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The question is...how and when do I try a kiss close?

Author:  smokeit [ Thu Mar 15, 2012 3:30 pm ]
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8)

when she's trying on victorias secrete in the changing booth with you

Author:  ganon [ Wed Mar 21, 2012 6:57 am ]
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+1. Go for the VS changing room. I've used it before.

Regrettably the one near me now kinda doesn't like men in the changing rooms...I have to get the girl to sneak me in once the attendant walks away...and so that requires the girl really 'being in on in' already. You might need the verbally get the girl to assent to it ahead of time (maybe try as a challenge, 'I bet you can't sneak me in...')

I've had a few good incidents with VS dressing room BJs. The pseudo-privacy works well: there's no change of visual interruption BUT you have to stay quiet. My theory is the girl is less likely to issue verbal LMR (b/c you have to stay quiet) or even nonverbal LMR (she doesn't want to risk YOU saying something).

Author:  smokeit [ Wed Mar 21, 2012 3:25 pm ]
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+1. Go for the VS changing room. I've used it before.

Regrettably the one near me now kinda doesn't like men in the changing rooms...I have to get the girl to sneak me in once the attendant walks away...and so that requires the girl really 'being in on in' already. You might need the verbally get the girl to assent to it ahead of time (maybe try as a challenge, 'I bet you can't sneak me in...')

I've had a few good incidents with VS dressing room BJs. The pseudo-privacy works well: there's no change of visual interruption BUT you have to stay quiet. My theory is the girl is less likely to issue verbal LMR (b/c you have to stay quiet) or even nonverbal LMR (she doesn't want to risk YOU saying something).

Agree. You gotta be a ninja. But it's worth it haha I love life.

Author:  fortyfour [ Thu Mar 22, 2012 10:50 pm ]
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actually hollister changing rooms rock for this too... they have this weird layout and they usually have a bench the length of the back wall, the lighting is dim and vaguely erotic and they usually aren't too well guarded

Author:  ganon [ Fri Mar 23, 2012 8:28 am ]
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One of the changing rooms at the VS near me also has a plush bench (perfect for her to sit to perform a BJ - no good surface for the knees can be a BJ LMR in other locations), dim lighting, and overall good decor. Also having mirrors while receiving oral rocks (although it probably doesn't help getting her to go down). It also has goo carpet and enough floor space for sex, though I've never done that (doesn't feel clean enough; potentially too noisy).

In a way, the difficulty of getting int the changing room in the first place is a plus: if she's down for sneaking you in, it's a major IOI, so you're less likely to encounter LMR once you're there (b/c a girl who will put up LMR in the changing room is likely to've not been game to sneak you in in the first place, and it's much better to eb turned down for that than for the BJ itself).

Author:  MadTown Mayhem [ Tue Mar 27, 2012 10:23 pm ]
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I was quiet at first and then said ok I will watch you shop.
That's not what an alpha male would say or do, but you're lucky because it sounds like this girl wants it so bad she wasn't really listening.

Author:  zookmaster [ Fri Mar 30, 2012 12:04 am ]
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I wish. This girl is a HB10 and has been dating stupidly ugly guys as I can see from her facebook pics.

I don't get it. I was good enough her to call for 2 months everday, good enough for her to chill with me at work for 6 months but not good enough for anything else.

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