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Author:  Pbblade [ Wed Feb 29, 2012 5:54 am ]
Post subject:  I need some advice on this girl, it's a keeper!
Greetings!


So I recently opened up this HB 8.5 on facebook, I was trying some ''Facebook/text game'' out to improve myself during the week (I'm away from home for 13 hours).

I went off extremely well and she loved it, she was amazed by the creativity , she responded very well and I constantly did this in a mysterious way, kept her guessing, kept her thinking etc...

After the initial talk, I gave her my number saying she could text me any time if she's up for a talk, she responded saying ''Added! I will not give you my number so you can guess who I am!''.

And so she did text me. We had a small conversation over text, it was really good aswell, got great responses etc, I took the conversation furthur on facebook where it also went really good, I was talking about a ''mysterious day 2" with her and she accepted it, and wanted to go, she said she didn't have time, gave me the reasons why and said we should do it another week.

My problem?

I texted her, with alot of intellegent, with alot of mystery, I'm not sure if I should transition or not, and If i have it in me, to continue that way. (It required alot of brain, holy F shiet). I'm very interested in her, but as usual, I always get a feeling that I'll fail, and I tend to get this when I like a girl alot.
Author:  DaveUrkel (BlackWhitePU) [ Wed Feb 29, 2012 6:59 pm ]
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Ok, so you're still coming from a mentality that you have to do a lot of stuff in order for a girl to like you. This girl already likes you. You can relax. You don't need to keep racking your brain to figure out ways to keep her interested in you. Just go on the date with her, hit on her, give her reasons why you like her (other than her looks) and enjoy the date. I could give you more detailed techniques, but you're obviously very in your head, so you need to learn to let go a little bit and enjoy.

And just a side note, don't assume she's "a keeper." You dont know her THAT well yet. That's awesome if you like her and she seems like a cool girl, but don't get ahead of yourself and tell yourself she's a keeper when you haven't even been on a first date with her. That'll only mess you up.
Author:  Pbblade [ Wed Feb 29, 2012 8:57 pm ]
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Ok, so you're still coming from a mentality that you have to do a lot of stuff in order for a girl to like you. This girl already likes you. You can relax. You don't need to keep racking your brain to figure out ways to keep her interested in you. Just go on the date with her, hit on her, give her reasons why you like her (other than her looks) and enjoy the date. I could give you more detailed techniques, but you're obviously very in your head, so you need to learn to let go a little bit and enjoy.

And just a side note, don't assume she's "a keeper." You dont know her THAT well yet. That's awesome if you like her and she seems like a cool girl, but don't get ahead of yourself and tell yourself she's a keeper when you haven't even been on a first date with her. That'll only mess you up.
Yeah I guess you're completely right, she has given me lots of Ioi's, said things that I was sweet and she finds it ''special'' to be around me, I'm having awesome conversations with her, I'm just trying to find a way to let her know that I'm attracted to her / wanna set up a day 2. It's pretty much the only thing missing.
Author:  DaveUrkel (BlackWhitePU) [ Wed Feb 29, 2012 9:24 pm ]
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Didn't you already set up a date with her? You guys r just gonna reschedule for next week right? 

To let her know you're attracted to her, you have to qualify her and give statements of intent. Qualification basically just comes down to telling her reasons you like her other than her looks and explaining why you like that about her.
Ex: "oh, you play soccer? That's awesome, I love girls who play sports because it shows you're not afraid to get dirty. Do you play for a county league?"
You just give a reason why you like that quality in the girl and ask a follow up question. If she gets a little uncomfortable, you just tease her right afterwards, "ugh! Get away from me!" or " too bad ur such a nerd :)" The tease doesnt have to really make sense, its just there to break the tension. That's a real quick explanation of qualification.

A statement of intent is just a statement that shows that you are sexually attracted to the girl.
Ex:
 "If you keep complimenting me like this, I'll just have to REALLY start hitting on you."

"You're exactly my physical type. I'm just gonna hit on you all night ok? There's no shame in my game." (That one is great for night game, especially towards the end of the night when you don't have a whole lot of time and you gotta get your cards on the table.)

"Listen, you're adorable and you seem pretty cool so far, so don't be alarmed if I totally start hitting on you in the middle of this bookstore. There's no shame in my game."

"You're such a nerd, it's a adorable!" (That one obviously has a little push-pull in it.)

"You're making me think dirty thoughts. Tisk tisk. Listen, I'm a good church boy, you shouldn't poison my brain like this :)"

Don't overthink this shit. Don't be afraid to throw lines like that in there. You gotta show her you're attracted to her. But this girl is ready for you, so get her on that date and take it from there. It's as simple as asking when she can hangout. Of course, there are other tactics to get a girl on a date, but I don't think you need them for this girl.
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