Greetings guys,
I recently started going to college, and I've had alot of succes, It's a different type of college, where the students are aged between 18 & 40. There's also fewer people there normally, but still good enough to have some fun
.I decided to take on the alpha male attitude, being energetic, going around meeting people, building rapport & generally dhv'ing myself alot and it has really paid off, on every corner of the school people started to interact with me, asking questions about my stories (Golden stuff
) befriending me and talking to me personally. I decided to use this as a way to improve myself in day-gaming.I came across this one girl who really took my interest, she's the typical shy, cute little girl, the type I usually fall for, with alot of sharp edges. I opened up on her in a store close to college and things went well, later that day I added her on a facebook, had an amazing talk and got her number which she gave me. We started texting and I noticed she became really talkative, going very deep into conversations and despite the circumstances (her going out, being busy etc...) still putting in alot of effort to send me back texts with lots of information.
I think most of the peole recognise this as friend-zoning, I honestly dont mind either - we have alot in common so I'm sure i'll enjoy spending time with her, also gonna use this to improve myself etc.
She surprised me as the next day I talked to her we decided to have a nice little 1on1 chit-chat and she went extremely deep into it, She felt comfortable with me after lets say a good 1 hour talk. This weekend she opened up on me with a greeting and we took off as usual again, having a good talk etc, and I managed to easily move onto a day 2. We are going to this party on thursday together.
My questions are:
1) I've heard text-gaming is bad, I even thought so myself, but with her it's very different. We send alot of information to eachother and it's obvious we both feel the mood is extremely good. Why exactly is texting bad?
2) She does have a boyfriend, I'm not to sure on their situation, she doesn't mention him at all and she goes with the flow easily. I know for sure he's not coming on thursday as she mentioned him having to work the entire week, should I use this to build good tension?
3) Is it healthy enough to create some sort of interest/tension, because I know girls can be vulnerable at times, spending alot of time with a person can create openings which another person fills, so she might become very attracted, but there's always this ''boyfriend'' drama that destroys it eventually.
4) We usually text more deeply, without to much funny/cocky stuff, so sexual tension is often not involved, Girls are generally closed so it's good getting to know them first before building tension, Do You think it's really unwise to keep the conversations like this? I often give her my opinions and transition to other stories so it's not like ''Ahum ahuh, yes your completely right, ''Question Question'' That kinda crap.
Oh, I also do not tunnelvision on her, I'm always talking to alot of people and I do spend a bit more time with her. But I think this is a good approach as she will feel slightly more important.