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Author:  jabmaster [ Sat Feb 04, 2012 2:54 am ]
Post subject:  Flirting with a shy girl

Whazzup dudes!!

Here I have a little trouble.
I met this girl about a year ago, she is a friend of a guy I know, very cute, tall (I love taller women), sweet and seems intelligent.

I tried a couple of times to build attraction & rapport over Facebook but she rarely entered the same times I did so it was a dead-end. So I finally decided to close this thing up and asked my friend to introduce her to me.

We went last Tuesday to a bar and I had a chance to talk with her (my guy friend was around 95% of the time, but no big deal, I had a chance to show her my attractive qualities), I think it actually went good because I kept control of the situation at all times and plenty cocky and funny.



I know she likes me because every single thing I said she started wiggling and kept smiling all the times.
Also she gave me her phone number with absolute no objection and laughed at my jokes.

The problem is this, I believe this girl is extremely shy... when we all are talking she avoids looking me at the eye, only the 3 minutes I spent alone with her she would look at me.




So I called her an hour ago and told her that I want to go out with her... it did not go very smoothly as she has this tendency to only wiggle or stay silent after I talk so no proper flirting there.
She says we might go out but she is not yet sure.

I like her but I am worried her shy tendencies may make her avoid me.
Is there something I can do?

Author:  Ballzie [ Sat Feb 04, 2012 10:07 am ]
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I would say, just say if you talk to her again before you two hang out, try and convey its a low pressure hang out, rather then a date. and just play it by ear on how comfortable she becomes. You atleast have her thinking about it, which isn't a definate "no" if she is really nervous see if she wants to invite some of her friends along to the "hang out" anybody else have anything to add?

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