Ello mates, i'm going to sketch my current situation on game and ask if i'm going the right way..
A classmate of mine is quite what you can call a player. he games 4 girls at the time and is proud of what he does. But i, while i'm also trying to become a PUA, think it's wrong to attract more than one targets at a time (one day, or even less).
I tell him, to check multiple chicks before going into game with one, so the others don't get disappointed in him, because he flirted with them.
Since last week hes playing with a HB6 from my class and that dumb silly thing even falls for hes fake charms, and because murder is no option, i decided i want to find a way to hijack her from him :p
Before this dude hit on her, i also made some moves.
she often told her problems to me, and i listened carefully.
sharing problems seems a good way to get in comfort for me lol.
during gyms, she even begs attention from me, and when she does i neg her right where she stands.
Shes easy to neg, and she bites like a fish in my negs, and i think i might have overdone it...
The first time i realized those two became a set while they where on a skiing trip (of wich i was absent), i reacted somewhat like this..
L3: Wt.. since when are you being played by that sucker? xD
L3: Just to warn you, he will play along with you, make you feel happy, and drop you when you get boring for him... I know him more than you do.
HB6: Why are you saying that? it's not like we are dating (She obviously lied, because her picture profile and status showed otherwise).
L3: No dating? C'mon girl, you can't lie to me! (kinda trolled about it, i'm having small regrets now)
HB6: We don't have courtship..
L3: And you still have that photo of him and you as profile haha.
L3: If i would have a secret relationship, i wouldn't play it very obvious like you do now. change the pic to something more... usual. Thrust me, i know.
HB6: *changes picture to something more usual*
L3: Yea, thats a great picture.
Few minutes passes
L3: So, are you really sure you want to be used by him? (From now the story will becomes really interesting)
HB6: He won't use me. How do i know you tell the truth?
L3: I hang out with him every time. he speaks about other girls all the time, and he shows me pictures and texts of him and girls, ALL THE TIME.
It's too obvious, really.
HB6: I don't believe you.
L3: Then don't! I'm not asking to believe you, or actually listen to me at all. But don't come to cry in my hands when he dumps you like shit, and you feel like a slut when he dumps you in a few months, because i've warned you of this player who likes pussies like he should like cars.
I just want to tell you, you deserve way more than this.
And you know yourself i'm not lying, you are just lying to yourself :p
HB6: I'm lying to myself? (awkward moment for her)
L3: You are in love, you do stupid things then. I'm not blinded by it, yet.
HB6: I'm not going to listen to you.
L3: Fine, atleast don't tell me i didn't warn you babe.
Another few minutes silence
HB6: I hate you.. why do you want to ruin everything?
L3: Idc tbh.
After this fierce talk with her, about morale and what not, she is pushing me away like how an ex gf should. I also realized a daddy-talk doesn't really work well, or does it? but i managed to get her in an emotional mixer, and every time i talk her about her new crush, she closes off.
I can't judge my status clearly anymore, but perhaps any of you can help me out of the fire. Most people know me as a guy who says random stuff, because i simply turn off my anxiety since i dont have anything to lose. :p
So, what do i do now? leave her alone, let her find out herself i'm better than this guy, or is there another way around?
Currently i have no gues
